Dream

Every day I see children being held accountable to take care of younger siblings because of One parent households, And the parent gets upset when the child forgets to do something or if they forgot a clothing a sock or a bottle or just anything.

My dream is for kids To just be kids and not have to take on so much responsibility of the parents.

My dream is For kids to be able to dream of the fairytale life like it was once before to be happy and comfortable and able to talk to parents about anything, and not hiding things from panrents,to feel wanted to be feel security and loved.

My dream is of kids instead coming to Parents and asking the parent do they need help do they want them to change the younger siblings diaper or do you want me to make the bottle or do you want me too help you pack the baby bag instead of the parent making the older child do it.

My dream is for parents to stop making it seem like it’s the child’s responsibility and getting mad if they make a mistake or anything because the child’s mind is not of an adult mind.

My dream is for parents to understand that they are pushing their childs away you were making your child grow up faster than what they’re supposed to you are the reason why children run away you are the reason why children have babies or thinking they want a baby because you put them in a grow person‘s position to handle your slack and the child It’s not being thanked for taking up the slack.

My dream is for parents to get to know their children to talk to the children ask questions about how they feel and what they think give children a choice, Let the voice be heard that them know that they matter And that their opinion matters they are not animals they are people they have feelings they have thoughts they should feel comfortable talking to the parents and not the parents getting upset about the answers that they give.

My dream is having the biggest house ever and welcome to me any kid is abandoned running the streets lost hopeless no family or just being bullied, I welcome every child open arms if I could take every child that’s been treated miss treated and take care of them myself I would my dream is to have every child I want everyone to feel wanted no child left behind like they say in school! no child left behind in this world no child should feel alone hopeless I want to give every child a chance to know what real love is from a parent or just a friend or anything unconditional love no judgment no anything you are all accepted.

I want to have a place for children to come and Just talk to me about anything no matter what it is,my ears and door are open!

Sometimes children even adults just need a ear no feedback just someone to listen. The world we live in today everybody think they supposed to give advice every time someone come to talk to them, but in reality they just want you to shut up and listen and just by you listening and not giving you input you help that person let all the past hurt go. Just by listening you helped a person fight depression, and they can now move on in life cause they finally got all the pain out that they been holding in all them years.

We have to teach that it’s okay to agree to disagree, and that it’s never just one way to do anything in life. We have to get everybody to understand that everybody don’t think the same as you do and that’s okay also.

We need to accept Difference because being different is okay!

No Judgment World

MyDream Is not just a dream any more because Everyday I teach my own 5 children to listen more and they don’t have to speak on everything because sometimes saying nothing is best! And never judge are talk about people if they don’t know something instead help them or show them, because you never know how life can switch on you and you might just need that person!

My Dream is to teach the world to be better listener’s and less always wanting to get a point across.

All my life I never expressed how I felt or never let people in to get to know me, If people hurt me I said nothing I let the people Closest to me cause me the most pain And never said nun. I held everything in all my life, because I always let them talk about themselves and how they felt or just anything and I would just listen and not say nothing unless I knew they wanted my thoughts. Everybody knew if they just wanted to get something’s off they mind they could come to me and I would listen no matter what I got going on.

2016 at the age of 27 I was having chest pains on and off all the time cause of depression and stress I went to the emergency room they told what I already knew anxiety/ depression, They sent me to metrocare and started me on meds. I didn’t Like the way the meds made me feel because I had no feelings or thoughts just weird, and I knew the meds wasn’t for me so I stoped taking them. A month later I finally got with my counselor at metrocare, and she told me that we was gone set goals. She started asking me questions, I answered… so she stopped and asked when did I notice my start of depression… I told idk never parkland just told me almost 2 months ago… she then said tell me about you? How many kids, siblings, mom, dad, grandparents etc.. I answered and when I got to dad I stated never met and grandparents past away already but they adopted my mom so.. she immediately said start from early as you can remember until today and tell me about your life tell me your story and I did just that.. crying, laughing, as I spoke she just looking at me saying nothing when I finished..she said that’s it see you in 2 weeks and she gone have a plan for me. I was so confused cause she gave no feedback, But honestly when I left I was so relieved because I finally let everything out I been holding in all my life and now my new life has just begun! I just needed someone to listen to me like I’ve always did for everybody!

My Dream I will open a place called:

OPEN EAR’S WITH A MEAL

So children Or homeless or just anybody can come in and eat and talk about anything if they want or just eat long as they know a set of ears is always here if they ever need..because all it took was 1 set of ears to listen to me and I overcamed years of depression!

DREAM HOPE ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!!

LESS TALKING MORE LISTENING !!

OPEN EARS WITH A MEAL