Do You Want a Happy Marriage?
The 10 Things Partners Need to Do for Each Other
What is the secret to a happy marriage? Of course, there is no single answer to this question.
But to find out what the foundations of a happy relationship are, you need to ask yourself, first of all, what you want. If the answer is respect, support, affection, and knowing that you can have full confidence in the most important person in your life, it is not difficult to assume that your partner wants the same things.
Although the "basis" is the same, men and women need slightly different things to be happy in a marriage.
Here are some things to do for your husband if you want a happy marriage:
1. Give up excessive criticism if you want to motivate him to change. Surely there are some habits that you would like your partner to give up. They are inevitable and part of the evolution of a marriage. But insults and harsh criticism will not help you get the result you want but will have the exact opposite effect.
2. Create a safe space for honest dialogue. We already know that most men find it difficult to openly express their emotions, fears, and say what they feel. Encourage him to open his soul to you and to have honest discussions that will help you get to know each other better and express yourself without fear.
3. Support him. Although they strive to stand firm in the face of challenges, men need just as much support and confirmation. Remind him every time you have the opportunity, encourage him, and show him that you support him.
4. Make him feel wanted. Nothing is sexier for a man than the fact that he is wanted by the woman he loves. If he is the one who usually initiates the moments of intimacy and love affairs, he will be delighted if you take the initiative.
5. Respect his personal space. We all have moments when we want to be alone and put our thoughts in order. Respect your husband's personal space and remember that even though you are a couple, you are two different people.
6. Take care of your body. The fact that you feel good in your skin, that you feel beautiful and sexy has a positive impact on your marriage as well. Taking care of yourself does not mean doing everything to look good for your partner, but first and foremost for yourself. And the positive effects will be reflected on the relationship.
7. Encourage him to express his vulnerability. Most men have been raised to believe that "boys don't cry" and that it is a sign of weakness to show their emotions, especially sadness or fear. Encourage your partner to talk about how he feels and to accept that expressing these feelings does not make him seem weaker, but rather stronger.
What to do for your wife if you want a happier marriage:
1. Make her feel like she's in the first place. Show your partner that it is more important than anything else, such as job, hobbies, friends, etc.
2. Listen to her honestly. One of the biggest grievances of women in relationships is that they feel that they are not being listened to by their partners. When faced with difficult situations, listen to what she has to say without judging, give her life lessons, or look for solutions to her problems.
3. Appreciate her achievements. Show her how proud you are of her when she has professional success and more. Celebrating such moments will make your relationship even stronger.
4. Remind her that you are a team. Although we have come a long way in sharing household chores compared to previous generations, there is still an imbalance in relationships from this point of view. Divide household chores evenly and offer your help without creating the impression that you are doing them a favor.
5. Give her security. Your partner wants to know that you are always with her and that you support her when she needs you the most. It is important to give her all your support when she feels vulnerable and in need of support.
6. Show your affection through tender gestures. Simple, seemingly insignificant gestures are especially important in a relationship. Kissing, touching, and hugging are ways you can show your partner your affection, without necessarily involving sex.
7. Take care of your image. You don't have to be passionate about fashion or go to the gym three times a day for your partner to find you attractive. The fact that you pay attention to your image and take care of yourself has a major beneficial impact on your relationship.
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