Couples living apart, can tolerate "loneliness", to see these five points

In love, long-distance love is the most distant kind of love. Because of the uncertainty, two people are always apprehensive. This distance gap, even when married with a paper marriage contract, can not be completely disappointing. The confusion in time and the difference in mood make two people start to lose track of each other.

While you are gloomy and need comfort, the other person is happy because of the plan. It is because of these little things that couples become disconnected and can't tolerate loneliness. The key to being able to stay faithful to your marriage and tolerate loneliness and temptation lies in the following five points.

01. Do you have an excellent character?

Ultimately, all those temptations are outside influences. As long as you do well, you will not be afraid of those monsters. A person with excellent character has high demands on himself, is serious and responsible for his work, responsible for his family, and loyal to his lover. Even now that I'm separated from my partner, I don't think about anything else. Loneliness is not a difficult state for him, but a natural one. Not wanting to be in the same boat as others, always keep his innocence. If you are married to such a person, even if you immediately face separation, your heart is also solid, because you do not have to restrain him, he is your own greatest supervisor.

02. Is the daily workload saturated?

Can not stand loneliness, often idle people with nothing to do. To make their lives rich and interesting, they have a variety of crooked ideas. If the daily workload is not saturated, you will feel that the work is easy. After work, there is no pressure, I will think about how to find some fun. Eyebrows, feel the sky is dark, without thinking out of the way. But a person who is saturated with the workload, when he goes to work, he thinks about how to complete the task. After work, he is full of fatigue, thinking about how to go home quickly and rest well. Naturally, he has no other ideas.

03. Do you have access to a large number of the opposite sex?

Even if a man has the idea of cheating, but can not see the object of cheating, and finally will not do anything. Every day in the opposite sex work Li Xia, it is inevitable to meet and chat. With the special attraction between the opposite sex, it is easy for men to control themselves. If a man's living environment is like Shaolin Temple, where all the men are, then whether voluntarily or forced, he must remain chaste.

04. whether the couple has deep feelings and daily contact.

Couples with deep feelings chat daily about their recent happenings, happy things, and sad things. They know everything about each other and never feel distant from each other. Someone is listening to your inner words, then naturally you don't need to go to someone else to hear your thoughts. But if the couple is generally affectionate, distant from each other, and can not say a word a day, it is easy to be used by others.

5. do you have something holding each other back, such as being in charge of each other's money?

Sometimes, you may want to be realistic. Such things, and feelings, will gradually diminish, but the benefits are eternal. If you can grab the other party's handle, such as property rights, and shady things like that, then the other party will not have the courage to cheat. Because once discovered, he will lose everything, and his name and reputation will be completely ruined. As long as you have something that the other party is not willing to face, you can always hold him, so that he does not dare to act rashly.

A couple separated by two places are flying a kite. The other one is flying in the distance and has only one string in his hand. This thread is just a thin thread, and no one knows when it will break. Marriage, living apart, is a test of their feelings for each other and a test of their character.

If you have excellent character and self-discipline, you will never have the idea of cheating. Make an effort every day and demand enough of yourself instead of getting by, you will not be attracted to extramarital affairs. If there is no opportunity to contact the opposite sex at all, then the restless and restless heart will become calm. The couple is very affectionate, talking to each other every day, with no reservations, and no chance for others to get involved. There is something about the other person that makes him afraid to cross the line. Whether it is moral constraints or reality constraints, as long as you can occupy one, there will be no extra-marital affairs.