Cherish to cherish each other be grateful to each other

　　 Cherish to cherish each other, but the feelings; mutual gratitude, but forgetfulness. So is family love, so is friendship, and so is love.

　　 (I) Parents' love

　　 I want to thank you and embrace you because you made me understand more deeply the warmth of blood thicker than water.

　　 Once I was young and arrogant, and I thought that all my parents gave me what I deserved. Only later did I realize that it was love, the most unending and selfless love.

　　 Every heart that is not forgotten is on the way to the fermentation of the soul.

　　 That year I was a senior in high school, 18 years old, not naughty and mischievous, just sentimental. Without encouragement and companionship, everything seemed so small, including the feeling of lack of paternal security, which has always been the heart of the eternal wound.

　　 Our parents went out to work early, and our relationship has been distant ever since, although we are already young adults, but our hearts are alone. Occasional radio contact, inevitably in the time of greatest need, feel the same heart of the wound. Even though they told me that they were forced to move away from their hometown due to economic pressure. At that time, the academic uncertainty; at that time, the inferiority complex as usual; at that time, the most need for companionship. Later on, I realized that understanding is the best way to solve the gap, but my childish heart always hurts those who love me the most in a heartless way. That moment, staying for a long time, and then gradually understanding, waking up sometimes, is the deepest and most painful confession.

　　 Growing up, everything changed. The physical distance is farther away from the university, but the heart is often tied. The graduation, work, their gradually declining face emerges from time to time, more deeply complained at the beginning and now the indisputable, while each parent to their children's hopes, raised eyebrows of the heart, but not a moment to waver. The young, allow yourself to make mistakes, but once, twice, or even many times after, no longer have their nagging, no longer have the opportunity to let the ear digging long cocoon, at that time, do not think that always think, society is the blessed land, is free, is heaven. Later on, it became clear that growing up is a habit of being accommodated, a capriciousness of being hung up on, not the bravery of maturity, but rather an exploitation of love. The distance is a cruel test, time is the reality of the grind, the heart of the bottom line, but the unchanged attachment to family love.

　　 The most important thing is that it is the most common but most magnificent chapter. The most important thing is to understand your parents' love, to cherish every time you get together, and not to be stingy with every moment of effort you make. We should cherish each other and be thankful for each other, instead of lamenting that "children want to raise their parents but they don't wait".

　　 (2) Brotherly love

　　 Brotherhood, the word is very deep, never easy to use. It is not necessary to be deliberate about what you are worthy of, and it is not necessary to care about what you cannot talk about. Brother, this love is very far, non-distance can change. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on this.

　　 I'm very fortunate that over the years, there are a few brothers who know their roots. We do not often contact, sometimes less than ordinary friends are in contact, in other words, brotherhood needs to keep in touch, but the need to use long-term contact to maintain the friendship, perhaps not all true feelings, true brothers, maybe more of a relationship medium.

　　 I have village hair, a few of the old family, needless to say, every phone call, long story short, but always willing to come to my aid; university dormitory and a few buddies is also a serious iron relationship. The same bed, playing the same game, countless days and nights, open up to each other. In the study and work made, no matter where I sincerely hope that can follow to participate in their wedding. Friends are not in abundance but in the heart. Brothers do not talk about interests, but in the time of greatest need, like relatives to you.

　　 In ancient times, some poets wrote, "I know from afar that my brother is at the top of the mountain, and I have placed dogwoods all over the place for one less person", and "After all the calamities, my brother is there, and when we meet, we will forget our enmity", and so on, all of which praise the rare and valuable spirit of brotherhood. Nowadays, not to mention Andy Lau's "Friends", Eason Chan's "Ten Years", Ren Xianqi's old song "Brothers" has long spread this sentiment to the north and south of the country; Pang Long's "Brother Hug", is the brother side by side to fight this heartfelt feeling, the tearful reunion, the interpretation of the fullest - "Brother hug, there are tears you can shed, say all these years, suffer the aggression and vicissitudes of change .......". The language is exhausted here when choking.

　　 Sometimes, brotherly love, a glass of wine is enough, in fact, all in the heart. Sometimes, brotherly love, cherish to cherish each other, read the original heart. Sometimes, brotherly love, know in gratitude, because always with the intention of brotherhood.

　　 (3) The depths of love

　　 About love, about being loved, there are many different opinions.

　　 What is love, this is the eternal pseudo-proposition, because there is no answer; what is the true meaning of love, this is the eternal false proposition because there is no true meaning. Then what is love, how to talk about what is love? Since there is no love, how can there be any confusion?

　　 Looking back, on the history of love, and putting aside these so-called meanings, always leave us enough to sigh a lifetime and unswerving love. The stone of hope is love, Meng Jiang female crying Great Wall is love, cowherd weaving is love, Li Qingzhao for husband widowhood is love ...... Zhou Wang Daji is love, King Bie Ji is love, Lu Bu Miao Cicada is love, Dai Yu Bao Yu is love and so on. Some are ordinary love, some are the emperor's love. Love, there is no difference between noble and low, moreover, there is no high or low meaning. Respect for each other is a shallow love, steadfast is a deep love.

　　 In life, always find couples quarrel, because of love; that break up is the release of love. Married, is because of love; that divorce is the funeral of love. In fact, in the outsider's view, the combination of two people has its purpose, but also its inevitability, although not to talk about the interests (and dare not because of the interests of the combination), the love itself is to accommodate, is to seize the opportunity to possible love, and maybe loved. It is often said that love is the grave of marriage, and not without reason, but overstatement, talk about any love, but also meaningless.

　　 The reality is that tolerance is the greatest love; companionship and understanding, cherishing to cherish each other, read in gratitude, is the most ordinary, but also the most precious love.

　　 Love has no reason, love has no true meaning, love has no high or low, if you have to give a statement, then only a just together, just combined as a couple, just become a family of love, is the real love.

　　 So, whether it is family, friendship, or love, cherish to cherish each other, all the way to follow each other, mutual gratitude, and deep love.