A man's thoughts

Sometimes think like this and be deeply missed by a man, how happy it is. That is, there is a moment of thinking. Because it is basically very small.

Maybe there are many fickle feelings around me, and this beauty is deeply hidden in the depths of the years. See a lot of divorced, or died, but the living people, time is not long, someone immediately fill the vacant position around them. In daily life, sometimes when I meet a man who has been married for many years, I will consciously ask: "Do you still miss your former wife?" Most of the answers were disappointing.

I don't say how bleak things are, how vicissitudes the world is. In a word, fickle feelings, reality, cold tea, no memory.

Recently, however, I met a lover, whose wife died for three years, and he still hasn't come out in the deep thoughts. It's so affectionate.

He came to me to mend his clothes, and gradually learned something about him. He is a soldier. He has been a soldier for 8 years. He retired and came back to work in the Transportation Bureau. He lives more outside than at home. The place to work is 20 miles away from home, and I go home once a week or once every half month. Two old people in the family, two children and more than ten acres of land were given to their wives alone.

It is hard for ordinary people to think about the hardships of a woman carrying a home. If a person's life is overdrawn for many years, it is necessary to end his life ahead of time. That year, his wife was 50 years old and died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. At that time, he was still working in the Transportation Bureau. I suddenly received a message from my family, and my wife died, which was hard to accept. I went to work after I finished my work, because I was always absent-minded when I missed my wife. A man without soul can't do a good job. So he retired early. Do nothing, sit at home, drift off, miss tea and meals, and miss like crazy. Later, he was coaxed out by his son to be a security guard, to pass the time at work, and not to let him calm down in painful thoughts.

Today, he came to me again to mend clothes and dry clean them, hoping to get them in the evening. I told him that the clothes were too dirty to be washed all at once, and it took a long time to clean them. He is a real person, and to be honest, this dress has not been washed for more than a year. Then with a deep sigh: "There is no wife, I can't help it. My wife is here. I will wash my clothes as soon as I take them off."

He is from Hubei. I don't know. Is it wife or wife in Hubei? We all call our wives here in Jiangsu. He is a soldier. Maybe soldiers like to call him that.

He really wants to wash his clothes and wear them to work at night. I told him again: "It usually takes three days to dry clean clothes. Come and pick them up tomorrow night." He said: "Forget it, I have to wear it at night because it is overalls."

So he began to take him to mend his clothes, and he talked about how hard his wife worked, serving the elderly, taking care of the children, and being busy all day. When his mother was ill, his wife only slept for 4 hours a day while serving her old mother.

After I mended his clothes, he asked me for some thread and wanted to go back to mend his clothes, so I found a small card and told him to wind it himself. After winding the thread, lower your head and bite it with your teeth. He said with deep affection: "My wife taught me to bite the thread with my teeth, and it broke when I bit it."

I asked if I wanted to bring a needle back. He said, "No, my wife used a needle with a big nose. I brought two." He saw one of my very old scissors and said to me, "There are two scissors in my house, which are still new. I bought them for my wife at that time. Bring one to you next time. " I declined politely.

A loving person always thinks of the lost other person. This Hubei man is so affectionate to his wife that he can think of his wife in everything. It can be said that this man is so affectionate to his wife. For three years, I'm still thinking about it.

What is deep feeling? Your heart is full of her, and everything can't help thinking of her. In that sentence, your figure and your voice are all in your dreams. As if you were by my side.

This loving Hubei man, for three years, has not let go of her wife, but always misses her. Praise for this deep feeling!

It is rare for a man to love his wife so deeply. I have great respect for such people. True love, that's it, love to be unable to extricate oneself. Love too much to forget.

Let time pass, let time pass, immerse yourself in your own world, love, think and read deeply. Pay tribute to love like this and praise it! Although his wife has passed away and is desolate, she is also happy. There is another man who loves you deeply, and this life is enough and contented.