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A love letter to death

"Hey Death, thanks for everything over these last millions of years."

By Courtanae HeslopPublished 4 years ago 5 min read

Death is a strange thing. It's the foundation of our mortality, yet it simultaneously represents the end of life. The existence of death means that we have something to fear, yet its inevitability means that there's no need to worry about anything in particular. While this might not seem like a particularly uplifting topic for a blog post, I've found that writing love letters to death can be an excellent way to get some perspective on life and what makes it worth living in the first place.

A good way to get some perspective on life is to write a love letter to death.

You can do this by writing about the end of life, the end of the world, or even just the end of time itself. In your love letter you should write about how great it will be when all exists no longer. You can start out by saying "Hey Death, thanks for everything over these last millions of years." or something like that if you want. Later in your love letter say something like: "I'm sure glad I got to live while there was still stuff around!" And then go into detail about what kind of stuff you liked most--did you like animals? Did you enjoy being able talk with people and play games with them? Did living give you an opportunity to do things that were meaningful for others but also gave yourself peace (like helping other people feel safe)?

You could also write a letter addressed specifically at people who experience death differently than how most people do: for instance those who have been murdered or abused physically/emotionally because they are different from society's norms may feel strange when thinking about their future without bodily functions such as eating and breathing anymore after dying themselves someday soon; these kinds of folks might find comfort knowing that even though they'll never see each other again once they die since everything else dies too (including space itself) but they'll still be together forever somewhere else instead!

Try to find something in your life that you can be grateful to death for.

You are going to die. I know you don't want to think about it, but let's just acknowledge that fact together and move on. The reality of death is a reminder that life is short, fragile, precious and meaningful—and no matter how much we try to ignore it or run from it or rail against it or pretend like it doesn't exist at all—it's also a reminder that life is valuable.

The gift of our lives has been bestowed upon us regardless of what we have done or not done with them so far (or will do in the future). We have been given this one chance at existence — an opportunity for love and connection with others; a chance for creativity; a chance for discovery; one shot at living out our own unique version of human potentiality.

So what does this mean? It means we can choose to spend our days doing things that make us feel alive rather than bored or empty inside by defaulting into old habits that don't challenge us anymore because they've become rote patterns from which there's no escape except death itself -– which comes sooner than later if we keep going down this path without taking any steps back towards self-transcendence every now again...

Find someone who loves you deeply, show them this article and ask them if they would be willing to read you a spontaneous love letter from the heart.

  • Ask a friend, family member or partner.
  • Ask a stranger in the street.
  • Ask your pet cat/dog/fish (it doesn't have to be alive).
  • Ask a tree outside your window.
  • Use your imagination and ask anything you can think of that has feelings: an animal, a car, a cloud...

Choose between two options (or make up yours): "I love you because..." or "I want to get to know you better because..."

I love you because:

I love the way you look at me when I think of something funny.

I love your eyes, which make me feel like I'm being swept away on a river of joy.

I love how sweet and patient you are with me when I'm having a bad day.

I love how confident and humble you are about yourself and your life.

Set a timer for 5 minutes. When the timer starts, immediately and continuously vocalize your words of affection until the time is up.

  • Set a timer for 5 minutes. When the timer starts, immediately and continuously vocalize your words of affection until the time is up.
  • Don't worry about grammar or spelling, just say what comes to mind in terms of how you feel about death.
  • Don't worry about sounding silly or serious, just let yourself be yourself.
  • Don't worry about sounding sarcastic or angry or happy or sad—just be in touch with whatever feelings arise as you speak, and let those feelings guide the direction of your speech.

Read it back to yourself once it's done.

Read it back to yourself once it's done. Don't worry about how it sounds, don't worry about whether it is good enough or too short or too long. Don’t worry about whether the tone is formal enough—it doesn’t matter! Just read through and see if you like what you wrote. If there are any mistakes that need correcting, do so now. Be sure to capitalize all proper nouns (for example: "I" and "you"). You can fix spelling errors later on—this is just a draft!

Every now and then, it's nice to remind ourselves how important death is.

Death is a part of life. Death is inevitable and it is a fact of living, but you can't live without death. Our world would not exist if it wasn't for the ravages of time, which also brings us back to our beginning point: everything must end eventually and in some way, shape or form.

The cycle of life is an endless loop that has been going on since earth's creation and will continue until its eventual extinction (if that ever happens). The sun rises every morning to warm your face with its light; afternoon comes and goes as the sun follows its path across the sky; evening arrives so quickly with fading light and cold temperatures as darkness falls...and then night becomes day again! It's amazing how quickly one day ends only for another new adventure to begin shortly thereafter!

Conclusion

I hope that you found this article and exercise helpful. Remember: death is not just a natural part of life, but also an opportunity for us to grow as individuals and have deeper relationships with the people around us!

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About the Creator

Courtanae Heslop

Courtanae Heslop is a multi-genre writer and business owner.

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