9 Signs That You Are Finally in the Relationship You Deserve to Be

Here are the signs that you are finally in the relationship you deserve to be:

It is not easy to find a relationship in which to be happy 100% of the time. Relationships come with their share of compromises, negotiations, arguments, and frustrations. However, when the feeling of comfort and peace is stronger than the other emotions, you know that you have finally found the relationship you deserve.

Here are the signs that you are finally in the relationship you deserve to be:

1. The things that matter to you will matter to him

You don't have to have the same passions, hobbies, and interests, but when you're in a relationship you deserve, the things that matter to you will matter to your partner. If it is important for you that the weekends are spent outside the home, and he is a soul that loves to stay at home, he will make a compromise and go out with you. Not all the time, but he will do it quite often.

2. You feel yourself heard

He always makes time to listen to you; moreover, he remembers small details, some even trivial, but important about your life. It also remembers crucial, happy, or stressful things from your past. He wants and does his best to get to know you.

3. You can talk openly about the problems you have

All relationships come with challenges and less beautiful moments and it is essential to talk about them. You are not afraid to tell him what you have in mind because you know he will not be upset; on the contrary, he will listen carefully and get involved with you so that you can resolve your situation.

4. You don't need plans to feel good with him

The beginning of relationships is a nice one: you do all kinds of things together, do interesting activities, you go everywhere, you spend as much time as possible looking for ways to have fun. But now you're happy to stay home with him without doing much. You feel comfortable around him and you feel that peace is installed in your life.

5. Keep your promises

He always manages to keep the promises he makes to you - which means he cares about you and wants to make you happy.

6. He doesn't find excuses and does not blame yourself

When you are close to someone, it is easy to eliminate frustrations about them. If you are in a true, mature, sincere relationship, then he will certainly not find bad excuses and he will not blame you for things not going well in his life.

7. You are a priority for him

You need time and practice to make someone an equal and important part of your life. When you are in a really beautiful relationship, you know that you become his priority as he became your priority. When someone is important to you, you need to know that you make it a priority not by words, but by actions.

8. You let things go

You will be irritated by your companion. You'll irritate him or her as well. You'll say things you don't intend to say. You will act in an impolite manner. What matters is how you cope with everything. So, for the second time, they forgot to get milk? Of course, tell them you're disappointed and then move on.

9. You talk to your partner, not with strangers

You tell your partner about your problems and concerns, not your coworkers at Happy Hour. Of course, you'll always have your pals as a sounding board, but don't use them as a crutch to avoid having difficult conversations with your partner.