5 Signs he only wants you for sex

Searching for love on dating apps is not something easy nowadays. The only reason why I say that is because you never can find the person with the same intentions as you. It is either one has more feelings than the other or one good careless. It can be frustrating when you are the typical individual who is a hopeless romantic. Most of the time, guys or girls usually want to have sex so much that they are willing to skip over the process to get to know each other to have it.

There is nothing wrong with wanting a sexual relationship. But if you are looking for something official, it can be quite hard when you are stuck with people who want to have a one night stand. I can say this because I have once tried out dating online, and for me, it has become a complete headache. I know what I want, and I am not going to compromise my standards. I want to not only be physically attracted to you but also mentally as well. I need to know in case anything happens; I am with the right person.

These actions can hurt somebody if they put their all into a relationship just for a person to end up using them and disappearing. That is why we must figure it out from the jump so it won't happen. Here are the signs of when a man is using you for sex.

1. Conversation is surface deep

Whenever you meet someone for the first time, you can tell if they are genuinely into the conversation. The conversation between the two of you is the first thing you look for while meeting someone. You need to know if you and your date have anything in common. I can imagine one of my dates being very dull conversation wise to the point of me having to find topics. But it made sense when he asked me about my sex life after our first date.

2. Only focused on looks

If a man likes what he sees, it doesn't take long for him to pursue it. It is easy to spot these individuals because they always give you compliments that involve your looks. When I was dating this guy, he was here for my appearance because he would always say how beautiful I was. But I never got compliments on me as a person. Whenever he was aggressive when affectionate, I knew then and there he only wanted one thing.

3. He only texts late at night.

If a man is interested in you, he makes sure to contact you any part of the day. They have no problem responding to you right away if they have feelings for you. There are ones out there that will not have any time for you in the day. But have plenty of time to text you at night. These are the ones to look out for because they are not here for anything meaningful.

4. You don't have much in common

For a relationship to blossom, you have to have at least something in common. It is not the case for some, but most relationships start with two individuals sharing something. Most relationships build by a genuine connection. If you do not have a connection, let alone anything in common, you need to think twice about continuing the relationship.

5. He really doesn't care about you

Just ask yourself, if he is not willing to be there for you regardless of the situation, then he is not the one. A man who cares will always go out of his way to keep having a relationship with you. He will make sure to earn your trust the right way. I was dating this boy on and off, and we will never last because he was never consistent. It seemed like he didn't want to put in the extra effort to make this relationship last because we always would break up. I had to ask myself if he was here to be with me or here to get a reward at the end of the night?

You are not alone when it comes to finding men who can keep it real. Sometimes dating apps can access you to a person but gives you a frog instead of prince charming. I am not saying dating apps do not work for everyone. What I am saying is that it can get hard when you are looking for true love. Love takes time, so have fun and enjoy the ride.

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