3 FAVS to light up your intimate relationship

Oooooo baby, do I love love?

One of my favourite topics!

But not just some boring, let’s exist together in the same space together love. I am talking about amazing, fun and juicy relationship with someone that is definitely worth knowing.

I know that it requires a bit of luck to get such a person, but we are also here because it takes VERY SPECIAL PEOPLE to keep CREATING such relationship.

These things don’t just happen on its own.

So I personally love collecting all amazing ideas about how to make the relationship delicious. And it does take a bit of originality to impress me. But here 3 of my favourite ideas.

Hope it gives you some inspiration!

CREATE AN ADVENT CALENDAR FOR YOUR PARTNER

This one is little bit time sensitive, but it is definitely one of the most beautiful ideas I have ever come across.

It was a woman describing her story.

She prepared an advent calendar for her partner. And she went for it.

Imagine the calendar, but instead of little chocolates, your partner opens an envelope each day.

And in that envelope, there is a little something.

Maybe it is a naughty photograph for your partner to keep, maybe it is a love story written by you, maybe it is a voucher for a sensual massage or dinner outside.

Unfortunately, she did not share what she put in each envelope, but I got plenty inspiration from that.

What she did mention though was a beautiful idea for the final Christmas Day. Any guesses? What would you put in to top it all up?

Well, she gave her partner an envelope with a note - 'What will you give me?'

And glorious love making unfolded...

CREATE A JAR OF DESIRES

I am a big fan of learning as much as I can about my partner and his desires. What do they love? What do they want to explore? What they fantasize about?

I believe that the surest way to get what you want is to ask for it.

So these questions can open some beautiful space for play and intimacy.

So why not to make a jar out of it?

Pull out a jar of some sort and paper and pen. Both you and your partner get 10 pieces of paper each and wrote down anything you want to experience together.

No limits.

You have 2 options then.

Be super adventurous and pop them into the jar without knowing what is on them.

Or you can read them to each other and see whether you both are YES to that experience. If Yes, pop it into the jar. If it is NO, let that one go for now.

Either way you end up with bunch of papers in the jar.

So next time you feel sassy, pull one paper out and let the games begin.

CREATE A MEET CUTE

In film and television, a meet cute is a scene in which the two people who will form a future romantic couple meet for the first time, typically under unusual, humorous, or cute circumstances.

Why not meet again?

This has about million different version about how to do it.

If it is only you, you can slip your partner a cheeky note saying to meet you somewhere. And when you come, introduce yourself under different name and give him some hint that you are meeting for the first time. Hopefully, he jumps into his character.

Or you can also agree on doing this. It can be equally fun. Organise where you will meet and agree that each of you will come as a new character, perhaps some alter ego of yours.

There is really no limit to the creativity on this one.

Soooooo have fun and enjoy!

These are some of my favourites.

And I believe these are perfect to create some absolutely unforgettable moments and memories that will last forever

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