10 Things I Love About Myself (And I'm Not Sorry)

For a long time, I used to hide my love for myself. I thought it made me look arrogant. But not anymore. After years of trying to make myself smaller to please others, I finally learned that loving myself isn’t pride — it’s survival. So here are 10 things I really, truly love about myself. Some of it is fun, some serious — all of it is me.

1. I’m a Poet — Through and Through

I turn heartbreak into poetry. My mind works in images and feelings. Writing helps me breathe, process pain, and grow. I’ve filled so many journals that they could light a fire. My words are my magic, even if no one ever reads them.

2. I’m an Empath (And an Introverted Extrovert)

I feel what others feel. I can sense tension or joy in a room instantly. I love being around people, but only in small amounts. After a while, I need to go home, eat something comforting, and sit in silence. I care deeply, but I also need time to recharge.

3. I’m Actually Pretty Funny

I can make people laugh, even during tough moments. My humor is quick, smart, and sometimes a little sarcastic — but never mean. I use humor to make others feel safe and seen. It’s one of my favorite parts of who I am.

4. I Say Yes to Adventure

I’ve tried new things even when I wasn’t sure how it would turn out. From cooking foreign dishes to going on random road trips, I stay curious. Life’s more exciting when you try something new, even if it’s a little scary.

5. Music Is My Safe Place

My playlists are all over the place — from rap to jazz to country. Music helps me through every mood. It’s the soundtrack to my cleaning, driving, and dreaming. No matter how I’m feeling, there’s a song that gets me.

6. I Can Cook — And I Actually Enjoy It

Cooking is how I show love. I try new recipes, even the weird ones from Pinterest. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. But I always have fun (and I always have snacks). Cooking connects me to culture, comfort, and creativity.

7. I Like Who I Am Now

It took time. I believed what others said about me — that I had to change to be loved. But I healed. I found my worth. I’m finally the version of myself I used to hope for. And I love her. She’s strong, kind, and growing.

8. I’m a Loyal Friend

If you need someone at 3 a.m., I’m that person. I don’t ask questions. I show up. I bring comfort food, a listening ear, and zero judgment. Being there for people is one of the ways I show love. I take that role seriously.

9. I’m a Virgo — Who Doesn’t Obsess Over Being Perfect

I used to want everything to be just right. Now? I’ve made peace with the mess. I miss deadlines. My home isn’t picture-perfect. But I’m okay with that. Life is messy — and that’s what makes it beautiful.

10. I Love My Family with My Whole Heart

My mom is my best friend. My daughters are like tiny explosions of creativity and energy. Even when life is loud or hard, they bring joy and laughter into my world. I wouldn’t trade that love for anything.

Self-love isn’t about being loud or perfect. It’s choosing yourself every day. It’s loving your weirdness, your softness, your strength. So yes — I’m a poet, an empath, a music lover, a garlic-obsessed mom, and a little chaotic. But I love her. Every single bit.