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10 Common Lies Told by Women

When Women Lie

By Timeless Siren SecretsPublished 3 years ago 4 min read

Why are some relationships more honest than others? Why are some couples more truthful with each other while others like to deceive their partner?

Nobody deserves to be lied to, but there is no doubt that women tell lies considerably and often. Men do the same too.

If you have trust issues in your relationship, in general, your partner may lie to you. Trust is something that you must build from the beginning of the relationship.

Even though, a lot of people tell 'white lies' in order to make others feel better, some women lie because, as caring creatures, we want to spare the feelings of the man we are dating or seeing.

So, here are some common lies told by women that you should know.

Women... I'm calling you out :P

1. You're perfect. I love you just the way you are and I wouldn't change a thing about you.

Let's be serious; nobody is perfect. At the beginning of a relationship, most women will say this because we don't know our partner very well.

Rest assured, that not long after, women will find things about her man that need to change.

In fact, sometimes, the very thing that women thought was perfect about their man, will be the very thing they want to change.

2. You're right.

Women usually end arguments like this.

Maybe this makes the man feel proud, but this is a big fat lie.

She said this just to make her man shut up, even if she didn't consider him right.

She thinks that after a while you will see that she was right, and she will wait for an apology.

3. I'm fine, Nothing is wrong.

The most common lie '' I'm fine'' when asked if there is something wrong is the most used by women.

You see that she is upset, she is acting strange or doesn't want to talk to you too much and ask her what is the problem she says that everything is fine.

They don't want to tell you the real truth but they are expecting men to figure out that something is wrong and that they messed up somewhere.

4. I do love sports honey.

Maybe she agrees to stay and watch a football game with you every week, but this doesn't really mean that she likes it.

She accepts doing this at the beginning just to show you that she is different from other girls and you have common interests.

You may be thinking that you have found the perfect girl for you, because not many of them would like to stay to watch football, but don't be too happy because after a while she might had enough and get angry every time you sit down to watch a game.

5. I like spending time with your friends.

At the beginning this is ok, but not too much.

Even if they are your close friends, she would like to spend more time alone with you and not with your friends.

If she didn't already tell you this, she will ask you to keep visits from your buddies at minimum and then she might keep pretending she loves them.

6. I love spending time with your family.

The truth? Maybe twice a month. Think about it.

Family members can be nosey, judgemental, interfering and/or condescending.

She agrees to spend time with your family when is necessary but she most likely does it just to keep you happy, not because she genuinely wants to.

7. Your bank account doesn't matter.

Did you fall for this. We all know that this is definitely a lie.

All women want a guy that is financially stable and independent, a guy that can assure her a future with no financial problems.

This doesn't mean that you have to be very rich or be able to support her.

But you need to be able to support yourself and not live off of her.

8. It doesn't bother me if you look at other women or go with your boys to strip clubs.

This is too good to be true.

Even if she says that this is ok, she will definitely be upset that you want to go.

They hate to feel second best to a night out with the guys, and accept this in order to make themselves seem less pathetically needy.

If you choose to go, she will most probably feel insecure. Unless your relationship is as solid as a rock.

9. You are very good in bed.

Women are very conscious that this hits a man's ego.

Often a woman who cares about a man will tell him all that she knows he wants to hear, just to make him feel good about himself.

Another reason she'll lie about this is because she is uncomfortable talking about what she wants.

The only way to get the truth out is to build a solid foundation of trust and to ask your woman exactly what and how she likes things in bed.

10. Don't worry, it happens to everyone.

If you make a mistake, or fail in bed, you might hear this lie from your woman.

She doesn't want to show you how upset she really is.

I wouldn't be too sure that your mistake is forgiven and I would worry about not making too many '' accidents'' like these.

As you see, what a woman says is not what she really thinks.

Although, she might be telling the truth when she says any of these things. But this is only if your relationship is built on trust and openness.

A relationship where she is free to express her truth without being judged or fear of you getting butt hurt.

How many of these lies have you heard?

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Timeless Siren Secrets

The Ultimate Guide to Becoming Irresistible to Men and Cultivating Confidence in Relationships

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