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Yet another thing about fake sugar daddies

fake sugar is the worst

By Lena BaileyPublished 5 years ago 3 min read

So it's been a while since I did one of these and there is way more I need to cover. If you have any questions or comments my email will be provided on my profile and at the end of this post.

The one question I got recently was is it normal for a sugar daddy to pay for sex? The answer is while it has become normal or common for daddies to offer to pay for sex that is not what sugar is. The term for exchanging money or gifts for sex is prostitution or sex work. That's not my definition, that is the legal and actual definition. This is also not me slut shaming any of you. If you are happy doing this than that is fine just don't ask me if this is normal sugar behavior. I also don't want angry emails from girls saying that I am judging you or that this is anti feminist of me to believe this. I'm a feminist and believe women should do whatever they want to with their bodies but I will also never lie to a woman just to make her happy. I can't change the definition of prostitution or any other word to make it more friendly for one person nor is that how it works.

Now that we got that out of the way let's move on. No sugar daddy will ask you to prove yourself especially when it comes to freebies or money. There was a guy on seeking arrangements who actually wanted a girl to pay him to prove that she was real. There have also been guys who asked for free nudes for the babies to prove themselves. If they get the free nudes or money they will ghost. Do you know how you prove yourself as a sugar baby? Do what you said you're going to do, show up for meet ups, and don't talk about money until he brings it up or until he brings up being your sugar daddy. It's really just that simple.

There is also this trend that has been around since the dawn of sugar time where guys send screenshots of their bank accounts to prove their wealth. This is something that can be faked and girls fall for all the time. Guys who actually do have money will not feel the need to prove it by showing you the screen shot of their bank account. They may not even brag about their money or how

There have been men that have just said something to the affect of "message me and get $100." These are just desperate, pathetic lonely guys who want women to talk to them and think $100 will sweeten the deal. What they don't realize is that sugar babies who message them will stop talking to them after a few minutes when they realize the money isn't there. A lot of sugar babies will say "here's my pay pal name please send the money so this can go further." Here's the thing why waste your time messaging these guys? You know that this is just a baiting trick.

These guys think we are desperate and stupid. I know I'm going to get a lot of slack for what I'm about to say but here it goes. If you have an income while you also have or are looking for a sugar daddy it will make you more desirable to a daddy. A lot of babies don't want to hear this but it's the truth.

So I hope you enjoyed this post. My email ([email protected]) is always open for questions and comments.

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About the Creator

Lena Bailey

Georgia born writer. Specializing in dating and true crime

If you have any questions or comments please email [email protected]

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