Sexual love can also abandon principles

Many people live by their own set of principles, resisting any easy changes. For instance, many are accustomed to taking a bath before bed at night. Suggesting they switch to a morning bath might feel like disrupting the order of the world, leaving them feeling unsettled and uncomfortable.

In reality, **"change"** isn't as difficult as it seems. The key lies in whether we can step across that invisible boundary in our minds.

When it comes to sex, if dissatisfaction or a lack of novelty arises, it's essential to try new approaches. Don't get stuck in your own principles or hesitate over whether to compromise. Many sweet couples and loving spouses have very satisfying and good sexual relationships. This isn't because their partners are exceptionally amazing, but because they understand the importance of being uninhibited and open to change. After all, when you have a fixed partner, performing the same routine every day is bound to become monotonous.

**Try Compromise for Happiness**

Breaking out of your principles can add more charm to your sexual relationship. This not only brings new sexual experiences but also sparks unique intimacy. Here are a few sexual principles you might consider compromising on:

**1. Making Love with the Lights Off**

Making love in the dark has its own pleasures. It allows you to let go more fully and adds an element of excitement, not knowing what might happen next. However, light can be a great tool for enhancing the atmosphere of lovemaking. Since humans are visual creatures, using soft lighting can effectively enhance the mood, creating a variety of beautiful scenarios. It also allows you to appreciate your partner's expressions or even see yourself in the act, which can be both shy and thrilling!

**2. Making Love First Thing in the Morning**

Most healthy men experience natural erections upon waking in the morning, which essentially means that **"morning is another optimal time for lovemaking granted by nature."** Some people dislike the idea of morning sex due to bad breath or the pressure of rushing to work, which can make it hard to fully enjoy. However, these issues can be resolved. It's recommended to brush your teeth and wash your face first thing in the morning, or you could focus on caressing and the physical act without kissing.

**3. Having Sex During a Woman's Period**

It can be tricky when a woman's period arrives. Many believe that the change in the vagina's pH level during this time makes it more susceptible to bacterial growth, so they avoid sex. However, the days before and after menstruation are often when a woman's libido is high and her body is particularly sensitive. As long as the man uses a condom and avoids overly vigorous movements, sex is perfectly fine and can even lead to easier orgasms for the woman. There's a common misconception that a woman on her period is unclean, but with proper protection and hygiene, and by avoiding oral contact with the vagina, there's no significant risk of infection. For those who are really concerned about menstrual blood, you could try non - penetrative sex. If you worry about cleaning up afterward, you can place a towel under your body and have tissues ready to avoid soiling the sheets. Alternatively, the bathroom can be a great place for sex during menstruation.

**4. Making Love While Pregnant**

Concerned that sex during pregnancy might harm the baby? It's true that the first three months of pregnancy, when the placenta is not fully developed and other discomforts are present, are not ideal for sex. However, after three to five months, when the placenta has firmly attached to the uterine wall and most pregnancy symptoms have eased, **"non - penetrative sexual activity"** is possible. If you do engage in penetrative sex, it's important to use positions that don't press on the abdomen and minimize strain on the belly, such as sitting positions or side - lying positions in bed. During pregnancy, hygiene is crucial, and lovemaking must be gentler than usual. This way, a woman can still feel happy during her pregnancy and can safely await the birth of her baby, welcoming a new member to the family.

**5. Making Love in Different Positions**

With the vast variety of sexual positions available, limiting yourself to just missionary position is really a pity! When one partner insists on this principle, it's important to communicate and explore the reasons behind the insistence. If it's simply because other positions feel too embarrassing, then it's time to get used to them and provide more psychological support to overcome this barrier.

**6. Making Love Without Taking All Your Clothes Off**

While undressing completely does make sexual activities easier, having sex with some clothes on can be very exciting. Especially in winter when people sweat less and might feel too cold to take all their clothes off, making love with some clothes on can be quite enjoyable! When the woman is wearing a short skirt, an OL suit, or various stockings, and the man is in a shirt and a well - tailored suit, it creates a strong attraction. This not only adds a sense of context to the act but also provides a fresh visual experience.

**7. Not Necessarily Having an Orgasm**

Believing that sex must always lead to an orgasm is a misconception. The most important aspect of sex is the **"emotional connection experienced during the process"**. While orgasms are important, they are not a must - have. In long - term relationships, what matters more is the spiritual bond and mutual support between partners. In daily life, occasional teasing or gentle caresses can create a romantic sexual atmosphere. Partners surrounded by this kind of atmosphere are actually happier and more likely to have a lasting relationship.

Remember, being too rigid during sex can cause you to miss out on many opportunities for greater sexual happiness. Being brave enough to try new things and not sticking to the rules is a great principle for a fulfilling sex life!