Pussy Eating Advice

Your Introduction to Pussy Eating

First off, if you are one of those guys that does not go down on your woman, you need to be jack-slapped right now! Not eating her pussy is one of the most selfish and ignorant things a man can do, to a woman; in my opinion. This is especially true if she goes down on you, but you don’t return the favor. Yes, it is true that some women don’t like someone going down on them. A lot of the times, it is due to bad experiences or misguided health concerns. It is 100% healthy for both parties involved as long as you both take care of your bodies. That is a fact. It is also true that there is a such thing as being down there too long; mostly when it is a part of foreplay. In case you missed that… eating her out shouldn’t always be foreplay. Do it just to get her off once or twice, every once in a while, at least, and expect nothing in return. It’s fun and it shows that you desire her, but don’t always need it to be about anything other than her wants and needs.

Now the Good Stuff

For this post, I thought I would make this easier and simpler, by doing this in a list form for your enjoyment and education. I hope you can take away what’s missing from these tips. Now, let’s get started.

1. If you are still using the “alphabet method”, then you need to up your game. The alphabet method is forming the letters of the alphabet with your tongue on her clit. Experiment more and use different shapes, patterns, speeds, and strengths. Variety is great. When you find one that works, do that for a while; then change it to another one that works. Feel her out and see what she responds to best and when.

2. Women are different from each other. Learn what your woman likes best and don’t assume that since the last one “loved” this, that the one you are with now will love it as much; or even at all.

3. Don’t ask her hundreds of times, “does it feel good” or “you like that” and etc. If you have to ask, do better.

4. Wrap your arms under her waist and around so that your hands can reach the area on each side of her pussy. Use your fingers to open her up to you more and also to apply pressure to the area where her abdomen and pelvis meet. Not real hard pressure, just enough to push the roof of her pussy against a finger slipped inside or simply to move the muscle making her clit open up to you more. This also helps keep her from running away as much as she squirms when getting closer to orgasm. Having said that; do let her move around a bit and do not confine her body too much or restrict her movement too much.

5. Remember; it’s called, “eating pussy” not just “licking clit”, so be sure to tease, suck on, and lick her whole pussy. Especially tease the opening. Put your tongue inside her and wiggle it; now trace her opening with just the tip of your tongue.

6. When licking her clit, don’t just u se the tip of your tongue. Be sure to use the flat surface of your tongue a great deal too. Takes practice to use the flat surface and move your tongue at a rapid pace in several directions. Worth it!

7. Don’t be all over the place or move your tongue like it’s a drunk gnat flying around. Put thought and purpose to its movements. Change directions a good bit, but make each direction and change of direction intentional and smooth.

8. Be sure to kiss and nibble on her inner thighs and mound (area where hair may or may not be just above the clit) every so often; especially when first going down.

9. Use your tongue to tease the area between her pussy and her inner thighs. Always great to tease her pussy/clit with your fingers while you do this and #8 above.

10. Continue to tease as she orgasms, but ease the pressure and speed at least a bit. Afterward, she will let you know if you should stop; or if she wants more.

Final Thoughts

I’ll leave you with these ten for now, but there are so many posts on this coming soon. Remember; these are just general and simple tips. This doesn’t even cover the detailed and scream-inspiring stuff. Those will be in a future post, but for now; you need to be sure that you are including these basics into your life… and more importantly; her life. As a man; you will very likely get yours before it is all said in done, but just make sure that your tongue can ensure that she always gets hers too. As I said; be sure that she gets hers even when nothing else happens after. Just go down to give her the pleasure without any pressure or expectation after. It means more than just the pleasure it gives her. Good luck and have fun, everyone.