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Orgasmic Tips For Men and Women - Achieving Maximum Pleasure!

Not everyone knows how to have an orgasm, or how to make the most of their orgasms.

By Alain SaamegoPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
Orgasmic Tips For Men and Women - Achieving Maximum Pleasure!
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Orgasm is a natural and beautiful experience that both men and women can enjoy. However, not everyone knows how to have an orgasm, or how to make the most of their orgasms. That's why we've put together this list of 25 orgasmic tips for both men and women.

  • Experiment

The best way to discover what gets you or your partner off is to experiment. Try different strokes, speeds, and techniques. And don't be afraid to ask for feedback.

  • Tease

If you want to build up to a powerful orgasm, tease yourself or your partner. Start by kissing and touching lightly, before gradually increasing the intensity.

  • Fantasize

Add some spice to your love life by fantasizing about imaginary lovers, erotic situations, or former partners.

  • Get Close

When you're close to orgasm, take a break and get close to your partner. Share some intimate moments and let the orgasm build up slowly.

  • Use Sex Toys
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Sex toys can add an extra dimension to your love life. Experiment with different types and see what gets you or your partner off.

  • Take Your Time

Don't rush to the finish line. There's no need to race to orgasm – take your time and enjoy the journey.

  • Vary the Stimulation

Different areas of the body are sensitive to different levels of stimulation. Experiment with different strokes and speeds to find what feels best.

  • Use Lube

Lube can make sex more pleasurable and enjoyable. It also makes it easier to achieve orgasm.

  • Visualize

When you're close to orgasm, visualize the sensations you're feeling. This will help you to focus and intensify the experience.

  • Be Present

When you're focused on the sensations, you're less likely to be distracted. Be present in the moment and let yourself experience the orgasm fully.

  • Find Your G-Spot

For women, the G-Spot can be a source of intense pleasure. Experiment with different strokes and techniques to find what feels best.

  • Try Different Positions

Different sexual positions can provide different levels of stimulation. Experiment with different positions to find the ones that work best for you.

  • Focus on the Clitoris

For many women, the clitoris is the most sensitive area of the body. Focus on the clitoris when you're trying to achieve orgasm.

  • Use Oral Sex

Oral sex can be a great way to stimulate the clitoris and achieve orgasm. Experiment with different techniques and speeds to find what works best.

  • Add Some spice

Add some spice to your sex life by trying new positions, fantasies, or toys. The sky's the limit – so let your imagination run wild.

  • Get Comfortable

Don't be afraid to get comfortable. Take your time to relax and get in the mood. This will help you to enjoy the experience more.

  • Be Patient

Don't be impatient – an orgasm takes time to build up. Take your time and let the sensations build up slowly.

  • Breathe

When you're close to orgasm, breathe deeply and relax. This will help you to focus and intensify the experience.

  • Use a Mirror

If you want to increase your pleasure, use a mirror to watch yourself or your partner. This can add an extra dimension to the experience.

  • Communicate

Communicate with your partner and let them know what turns you on. This will help them to please you and make the experience more enjoyable.

  • Get Dirty

Add some dirty talk to the mix. This can help to intensify the experience and make things more exciting.

  • Fantasize

Fantasize about things that turn you on. This can help to increase the pleasure and make the experience more enjoyable.

  • Add Some Noise

Make some noise – it can help to intensify the experience. Moan, cry, or scream if it feels good.

  • Be Vocal

If you want to let your partner know what's going on, be vocal. This can help them to please you and make the experience more enjoyable.

  • Seek Help

If you're having trouble achieving orgasm, seek help from a qualified sex therapist. They can help you to identify and overcome any obstacles.

There are plenty of orgasmic tips for both men and women. Some of the best tips for men include using a cock ring, focusing on the perineum, and using a vibrator. Some of the best tips for women include using a vibrator, focusing on the clitoris, and using a dildo. Experimenting with different techniques can help couples find what works best for them and lead to more enjoyable orgasms.

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About the Creator

Alain Saamego

Software engineer , Writer and Content Strategist at Selfgrow.co.uk

I'm a technology enthusiast, and I love learning about upcoming technologies. I also enjoy teaching and answering questions about new technologies.

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