How to Eat Pussy 101

Introduction

Welcome to a quick introduction on how to eat pussy. Yes, it's "How to Eat Pussy 101"... the most important class a man can take; according to his woman :-) First off, if you have not been going down on your woman, because you are afraid that you won't be good at it; that was your first mistake. Not going down on her for any reason, is way worse than going down and not being good at it. Most women will at least guide you or tell you how to please them... as long as you are willing to at least try.

I have no doubt that you think the next thing to talk about is how to move your tongue on her clit or how to tease her opening... it's not. Also, shame on you for wanting to jump the gun so quickly and selfishly. Always keep in mind that is called "going down" for a reason. A lot of guys would like to change the name to "already down" or even "was down there a moment." Neither of those is anywhere near right!

First Things First

No, the first thing to talk about is to make sure you start from her lips or neck; how you kiss or tease would depend on the pace and preference of her and the mood. It is important for oral sex as well as any other passionate moment, that you pay attention to the feel and pace of her mood. You then adjust to flow with her; since it is a lot easier for a man to do than a woman. If you can adjust to her flow then the experience will be much greater for both of you. Once you have the feel and flow down; tease her from the lips or neck down...and don't skip an inch. Don't take forever either; but don't skip an inch and don't be afraid to playfully experiment with how and where you touch and tease. Try not to get into the habit of teasing her the exact same way every time. It's far less fun and effective if each movement becomes too predictable. A great example is as outstanding as her breasts are; try to include the areas around and between her breasts as you tease them. Also, don't spend half the time in that one general area. One of the best places to kiss and tease is actually her sides; not one of the first places to spring to mind when thinking of turn-on spots...but it's true.

When the moment comes and you find yourself with your face between her legs; don't just lunge forward and go at it either... even if she's dying for you to. Now, if she grabs your head and tries to force your mouth onto her pussy; you might better do as she says :-) Otherwise, take a moment to kiss and playfully bite at her inner thighs and even all way down to her calves. Kiss a trail at least up from her inner thigh to her knee; and then behind her knee... then all the way back down until you are teasing that soft area between her thigh and the outside of her pussy. Do it on both sides and when you meet the middle again; blow a soft and slow stream of breath across her clit. Be sure not to blow air into her opening; it's not good if air gets in there...not tragic; but not good.

Getting Down to It

Okay, you've made her wait long enough; it's time to put her on that pleasurable roller coaster. If you are one of those guys who remains totally clueless, then you can start with the "alphabet method" and expand your skill from there. The alphabet method is simply using your tongue to write the letters in the alphabet on her clit and the whole of her pussy. Honestly, it is a rather teenager meets puberty kind of method; but it is a place to start for those who are- as I said- totally clueless to start with.

Of course, you want to get away from having to use that method and make it so that each movement of your tongue is thought through for the result instead of just trying to keep your tongue moving. After a while it almost seems as though you go from forming the alphabet...to the Chinese alphabet.

Try trapping the lips of her pussy between the lips of your mouth; and then use your tongue and lips (wet) to slide up and down the entire length. Most likely you will need to use slow suction to keep the pussy lips trapped. Now dip down and use the tip of your tongue to tease the perineum (area between the asshole and opening) with light licks and tiny circles. Move up slowly and trace the opening with the tip of your tongue; using only light to mild pressure. Gradually, increase the pressure and then start moving the circles inward; until you feel her opening give way to the tip of your tongue. Now... push your tongue inside her and try to continue making the circles as best as you can. If she is super tight; this might take a good bit of effort, but it's okay to move your head to assist your tongue. After that, lick a slow and some-what strong trail up the length of her vagina until you reach her clit; then lick a little harder until you feel her clit slide off of your tongue.

Wrap your arms under her waist and around so that your hands are able to come back around to her pelvic area. This serves two purposes. First, it will help to stop her from being able to run away as she begins to squirm or thrash around. Secondly, you want to pull the hood back and her pussy open so that you fully expose her clit to your mouth. Start by teasing just the tip of her clit with the tip of your tongue; using back and forth motions and up and down. Use the same speed and pressure for a short while (based on her reactions) and then change one or both; just to catch her by surprise. When she is ready (you'll know) ... use the suction of your lungs to pull her clit into your mouth (yes, open your mouth wider as you suck in) and then continue using your tongue to tease it as you hold it captive inside your mouth; which will be getting hotter and hotter. Rather than letting go completely to draw a breath; which unless you're not human, you will have to; keep her clit/pussy trapped between your lips (lips not teeth) and make a bit of smile with your mouth. This way you can keep her clit trapped, but you can pull air in from the sides of your mouth. In fact, if you can make this expression without it being too wide...you can pull a stream of air across both sides of her clit; even as you tongue continues to tease and the pressure of your lips' trap gives her a sensation too.

Now, as wonderful as that is...it's time to let go :-) Release the hold on her clit, but continue to tease it at the same time. By now she is more than warmed up and probably soaking wet; which of course is a good thing. Also, your tongue should be limbered up (yes it needs to limber up just like your other muscles) and you are ready for some more variations in order to get her pleasure in over drive. For the remainder of the time, alternate between using the tip of your tongue... the sides of your tongue only...and especially, the top of your tongue. Changing from using your tongue in a rather straight forward or tip of the tongue way, to pushing or bending your tongue down so that the top (flat) side of your tongue moves quickly (or slowly) across her clit...can make a huge difference.

Cunnilingus Continues

Don't worry, it's not all fancy tongue work and acrobatic head movements though. Picture a kitten licking a saucer of milk....now do that top to bottom on her pussy. Do it on just the lips...then just the opening...then just the clit...then from top to bottom in a slow moving pattern. Also, every so often; use one of your hands (or both if you want) and push very gently down on her pubic mound (where the hair either is or would be if she didn't shave it). Push slightly but push from to top (waistline) toward you (her pussy) a little and inward toward the center of her body. Just enough to slightly push the upper wall of her vagina down and onto the contracting muscles... and your movements. This- of course- also pushes her clit a little further out and down toward your awaiting mouth.

One of the main things to remember is to keep the movements steady but varying enough to keep her guessing. Hopefully, you can even get her anticipating anxiously what you may do next...what sensation will you send shooting through her body any moment? Dart your tongue inside her a few times in between licks and kisses, suddenly trap her clit between your lips without slowing your tongue, or even open your mouth wide and suck in and trap as much of her pussy as you can...and make waves with your tongue to tease the entire thing top to bottom as you hold it in your mouth; then... suddenly release her with a slurping "popping" sound. Yes, sounds make a difference in her reactions and sensations; unless she is deaf, then it's all about the vibrations only. Of course, all women love vibrations down there :-) You can use your moans, grunts, and various other sounds to cause vibrations against her skin; especially if you have her trapped in your mouth. This works even better for those of us who have a very deep voice, but if you don't have a really deep voice...it still works great.

One Last Tip

One last small tip; if you are laying down on your stomach with her spread before you; put one knee out to your side. Having your knee out to the side will help you to move forward (into her) and back (away from her) in order to compensate for her squirming and thrashing around. After all, you want to stop her from running away...but never stop her from moving around in any direction...yes, including up :-) Also, it's never a horrible idea to use your hands and fingers along with your mouth and tongue when you are down on a woman.