Fear of unknown

However, sex is a personal choice, and individuals have different comfort levels and reasons for choosing to engage in sexual activity. If someone is afraid of sex, they may benefit from seeking education and information about safe sex practices, discussing their concerns with a trusted partner or healthcare professional, and taking the time to explore their own feelings and desires. Ultimately, it is up to individuals to determine when and if they want to engage in sexual activity.As an AI language model, but according to psychology, the fear of intimacy is a common issue that some people face due to various reasons, including past traumas, attachment styles, and fear of vulnerability. It can manifest in different ways, such as avoiding emotional or physical closeness, experiencing anxiety or panic attacks in intimate situations, or sabotaging relationships before they become too deep. It can have a significant impact on personal relationships and can lead to feelings of loneliness, isolation, and low self-esteem. However, with help from therapy and self-reflection, one can learn to overcome this fear and form healthy, fulfilling relationships. And in some cases it might be growing up in a group of boys or being too close and attached to male friends that don’t have interest in you and all of them takes you as sister and likewise, and it happens that they have female friends that they have sex with and they do discusss the whole scenario with you, such things makes one to lose interest in sex and it will take a girl long time to accept to be disvirgined but if eventually she was disvirgined and the pain is much she won’t be having sex urge because of the pain.It's important to communicate with your partner, and to prioritize both parties’ comfort and pleasure during sexual experiences. There are many ways to improve sexual intimacy, including communication, lubrication, different positions, and seeking medical advice if there is persistent pain. It is crucial to always practice safe sex and use protection to prevent the spread of STIs and unwanted pregnancies. Am a victim tho,🙈because I grew up in a group of guys that are well more older than me and the funny part is that they do send me to call a girl and convince the girl to come and meet them and am very good at that 😀 and the girl will follow me, I will take her to one room and tell her to stay there and wait for him and after they are done having sex the guy will tell me everything something like if the girl is sweet, if she moans very well or not, but there’s is one particular girl one of the guys had sex with and the guy said that he hates the girl because she don’t moan or move while fucking her 😂 and that he will not have sex with her again. Omo I see things shaa, and there is a mechanic shop beside my mummy’s shop most times they fuck the girls inside the car that are parked for repairs 🙊.

There is one of my classmate back then in secondary school she is staying with one pastor that is staying close to our shop so the guy want to have sex with the girl, unknown to him the girl is still a virgin and the girl did not tell him but the guy later disvirgined her and was happy and was telling everybody that the guy is her boyfriend while the guy did not have any single interest on the girl, he just want to take advantage of her, so after I witness all those things I lost interest in sex, although I was disvirgined when I was 22yrs🙈because I want to feel like a woman so I have to beg one of my male friend to do it but it was fucking painful 😓.