Conservative classy has become the new sexy

What is considered attractive or hot? What is the ideal that others are looking for or attracted to? Is there a pattern in trends of what we find attractive?

For as long as we can remember people seem to be attracted to the unusual or uncommon. Most have always been attracted to the few who stood out from the rest in a crowd in a way we find pleasing. When it was common for people to dress and act conservatively people would tend to find the revealing person attractive. A person who stood out from the normal was often thought to be the most attractive. While a person may have even married a conservative person they could easily have their attention stolen by a more exposed dress person or a person who acted sexual simply because not many did that in those times. That caused many more conservative people to start acting more promiscuous as an attempt to be that unusual one that turned heads. Until so many started acting in that way that it became the normal. Now it is no longer uncommon to dress revealing or act sexual, it is in fact extremely common.

Today it has become the opposite from those conservative times. Most people are dressing in sexy and revealing clothing and acting sexually powerful or simply promiscuous. To the point we made "slut shaming" a thing. That has in turn caused others to start having their attention stolen by that conservative sweet wholesome appearing person as they have become the rarity. Including turning to finding older people more attractive simply because the older generation have a higher rate of acting more conservative while the younger generation tends to fully embrace the less conservative lifestyle.

While someone showing extra skin and wiggling used to turn heads now its everywhere you look so that one conservative person in the crowd now stands out. Many have found that a potential partner that has not dated or flirted with friends is far more appealing. Now many sexually open and powerful people are finding the conservative counterparts are the ones now turning heads as they are the more uncommon. It has simply become more common to dress in manners meant to attract and such so that classy dressed person now is the uncommon more sought after because you can get promiscuous anywhere these days but you can not get conservative without finding a hunt through the promiscuous and the ones trying to pretend to be conservative to be that less common commodity that everyone now seems to want.

While the easy access look and persona will always get their fair share of those always up for an easy orgasm, the conservative has become more of the underlying fantasy desire that people are craving. Again simply because the common can be gotten anywhere while the uncommon stands out and almost a trophy because only so many people can get a conservative person as there are only so many out there available to try and connect with. Just as the female gamer used to be the uncommon and has now become the common it is no longer considered "hot" to be a gamer it is just normal as it should be since girls can game mad skills too lol. It does go to support the theory that people are attracted to less common and people start trying to act like the less common to be the attractive one until it ends with it as the new common. Some end up in these roles organically just being true to their own personality but they are always joined by far more who are seeking the attention of being the less common. Such as myself becoming more conservative as I get older, however I welcome anyone wanting to go for that lifestyle as well no matter what their reason. In life there will always be someone attracted to anything out there so there is no real need to try to be any specific way other than true to yourself or who you hope to be.