You come against the light and are worthy of all the beauty in the world

Believe me, it's not a man's fault. And certainly, it's not the fault of women.

　　It's the hormones in our bodies that determine it all. If a woman loves a man, that man is the whole of her life, while a man loves a woman, she is only a part of his life, or perhaps a not-so-large part.

　　When a man's heart is divided in half by his career, divided by his wife a little, by the children to dig away a large piece, then you think about it, how much space he has to accommodate you? And what if, he has more than one lover? Several women are sharing his pathetic space, which you can occupy, probably only a narrow corner.

　　So, when he is free to visit you, when not free to forget you, the sky is the limit, of course, he can not achieve his love for you. But, what about you? The female brain decided that you are a sensual animal, you take his occasional warmth as a promise of longevity, the small gifts he throws at you as a pledge of love. Remember Wang Jiazhi in "Lust, Caution"? Mr. Yi sent a "pigeon egg", looking at this dazzling beauty, she forgot herself, forgot the mission, forgot the humiliation and efforts over the years, she took the man's appreciation as an excuse to sacrifice for love. She could have had a better ending!

　　Thanks to Li An, let women see themselves. Married men are like a baton, it does not necessarily point in the wrong direction, but will eventually make you lost.

　　Wang Jiazhi can have a better ending, she can be with Kwong Yu Min, and she can complete the mission after the peace of mind to be a heroine for centuries. People will infinitely magnify her side of giving up her life, ignoring the other side of her "giving up her body", which could have been a happy ending that was subverted by her desire, love, and obsession for an old man. But don't forget, the real-life version of this story is played out countless times in life, how many women, to a family man abandoned everything, on the surface, they are in pursuit of love they are in self-interest.

　　Since men don't treat extramarital affairs as love, why should we give up our "bodies" for righteousness? Wake up, girls who fall in love with older men! He is not worth having!

　　Test: to see how many real feelings he has for you to move the real also, the game of life or, since you developed that relationship, more or less will have some emotional score. Well, for him to do a little test well, to see this you are infatuated with the man who has a few real feelings for you.

　　1. You put on a sexy evening dress in front of him, what will he say?

　　A. And then drag down a little, let me see.

　　B. Beautiful, really suitable for you.

　　C. Or pull it up a bit, don't be too flashy.

　　2. If to provoke him, you say you are now dating another man, he will be what reaction?

　　A. Yes, you should go after real feelings, go try it.

　　B. No, I won't let you go, you're my little girl. c. Silence, no response.

　　3. How did he introduce you to his male friends?

　　A. "This is a little girl who is not to come with me." B. "A friend of mine." C. Rarely take you to see friends.

　　4. How does he usually describe his wife to you?

　　A. Rarely says it, and avoids it when he can.

　　B. Often counts his wife's faults in front of you.

　　C. Talking about his wife, everything is fine, just a lack of passion.

　　5. How did you start to move from life to bed?

　　A.When we first met, he proposed.

　　B.At least 5 dates before it came to fruition.

　　C.He let you choose the appropriate time and didn't make the decision himself.

　　6. If you don't talk about it, does he like to ask about your past?

　　A. He hardly asks, when you talk about your past, he always tells you: that people have to live in the present.

　　B. Sometimes ask about your first love, but most of the time do not ask.

　　C. Always ask in a roundabout way, first love, boyfriend in college, and even ordinary friends, one by one.

　　7. and you are together, suddenly the wife's phone call, what will he do?

　　A. Everything as usual, in front of your wife to talk.

　　B. Say hello to you, lower your voice and go to another room to answer the phone.

　　C．End the call quickly and tell the other party to call her right away.

　　8． When he is sick, will he tell you?

　　A．Seldom tell you, he never seems to be sick.

　　B．When he gets well, he will tell you.

　　C．When he is sick, he will tell you quickly.　　

　　9. If there is any unavoidable occasion that he has to face your girlfriends, what will he do?

　　A. Meet with people openly, there is nothing to avoid.

　　B. When meeting with your girlfriends, you can feel his shortness and a little uneasiness.

　　C. politely tells you that you have to leave first, so you won't see your best friend.

　　10. If you go out to see a movie, what kind of suggestions will he make?

　　A. Watch a love or erotic movie.

　　B. According to your choice, you can watch whatever you want to see.

　　C. What is popular, what is new in theaters to see what.

　　Choose A for 1 point, B for 2 points, and C for 3 points. 10 questions are added together to calculate the total score.

　　10 to 16 points: your feelings do not score high Oh! The thing to think is: he may not like you, but your youth, your body. He and you together, it is possible to relive the so-called "first love" feeling, he is a very philandering man, in his eyes, you do not matter at all, just a fascination with him, a little girl dedicated to him. More importantly, as any party to the relationship, mutual respect is the minimum moral code, but unfortunately, he is not even willing to comply with this. Sometimes you will feel that his pulling away is out of helplessness, but in fact, it is just a manifestation of his lack of respect for you. You should always be prepared to be dumped by him, and, he may have more than one girlfriend! Before the truth is exposed, it is better to take the initiative and go ahead of him, so as not to be heartbroken later.

　　17 to 23 points: this is a medium-grade score. As a married man, he has his hardships, there is the pressure at work, and there are unspeakable problems in the family. Your appearance, so he feels more new in life. He may not be sincere to you, but at least he still cherishes you, he knows the value of your existence but also is using your existence value. In his eyes, you appear in his life as a very different person from his wife, and the basis of his feelings for you mostly comes from this fresh feeling. From the current point of view, as long as you obediently obey, do not quarrel, not to his excessive requirements, then he temporarily will not think of the word "break up". But don't forget, such a man has a certain sense of family responsibility, once he needs to make a choice, you will also be mercilessly dumped out of the game.

　　24 to 30 points: your score is not low, so you face the most embarrassing kind of situation. His affair, not all sex-oriented, to be fair, he likes you, and even in his heart, may have moved to dump his wife and you married the idea. But the idea is ultimately the idea, the implementation to the actual action is much harder. For you, you are willing to accept a man who has had an affair as a husband? If you truly love him, then also try to downplay their feelings, do not let him know. Otherwise, dry wood meets fire, it is likely to burn a dangerous spark! In addition, do not advise him to divorce, never. Men are impulsive creatures, but their impulsiveness is fleeting, and he is also an ordinary person, unable to jump out of the circle of common sense. If he moves true and says he loves you, it's worth smiling lightly and thanking him, that's all. You are a smart woman, you need to choose between emotion and reason, and his feelings for you, even if they are sincere, it is unlikely to last.