Reconcile with yourself

We sometimes hate a person without any reason.

　　This person may be a character in a movie or a movie set or someone alive and well in our surroundings.

　　There are many reasons to hate someone: she is too childish, he is too emotional, she is too pampered, and he is too humane.

　　Some are not in the way of others, their personalities, or rules of conduct. And the degree of annoyance is sometimes so strong that even we can not control ourselves, always speak of gnashing teeth, angry to the veins violently.

　　Have you ever thought that these personality traits that make you so disgusted, are the reason why we are particularly fierce and profoundly affected?

　　Perhaps, it is because we are jealous of them that we can blatantly show.

　　In some part of our personality, there may be such traits, but we just can't express it frankly, just we can't show it naturally in front of people.

　　So, what you hate is a part of yourself that you don't want people to see, that you can't tolerate, that you can't accept openly.

　　We often don't know ourselves very well, especially at a young age.

　　When the young prince left his planet in a hurry, leaving the rose that brought him so much pressure but was unique to him, he did not understand that one day he would never see the planet, never see the rose again. He does not understand how strongly he will miss all that he once wanted to escape.

　　As we grow up, we are always in a hurry to be someone or to escape from something.

　　So, subconsciously looking for one object after another. Through a hunger to imitate the dress, the tone, the behavior, the way of speaking, and even the books and movies that we have read, we hope that we can become that shining person too.

　　But only when we are old enough do we understand that we do not want to be the object of imitation.

　　We just don't want to be too ordinary anymore, we just want to be different from our current selves, and we just want to be noticed.

　　We want to be seen by others, that's all.

　　Driven by the unstoppable comparison mentality, good influences will naturally spur us to keep working hard, hoping that one day we can finally be as successful as our imaginary rivals or even more successful. But people have inertia, and the most defensive is not only themselves, when you can not defeat the imaginary enemy, jealousy, and hatred are inevitably like evil to the bile.

　　Sometimes, you will make some behavior that even you despise, trying to block or destroy the success of others.

　　So, in the young years, leaving some even you can not recall, more want to deliberately forget the stain.

　　Time pushes us forward, wandering between more and more successes and failures, and we learn to get up and fall again and again before we finally learn something like, "Just because someone else has a better achievement or glory doesn't mean they are more important than you."

　　Everyone is walking on a unique path in their own life, with different timetables and value judgments in their hearts, and of course, they each have their meaning and reason for being in this life.

　　When standing at the finish line of life, achievement and glory are not ultimately determined by fame or wealth, but by whether one's heart can be at peace and complete.

　　Many of the things that we missed when we were young and the stains that we couldn't erase were finally fulfilled because of time.

　　In the moment of doing wrong, the moment of leaving a stain, perhaps, time does not play a role.

　　However, when time lengthens, what we can't let go of at the moment is put down, and what we can't get over at the moment is passed.

　　Time allows us to grow up, rounded up.

　　The reason why many things are not complete is that the initial self is not complete.

　　The greatest magic of time lies in the fact that the initial painful and heartbreaking has become the present light-hearted.

　　The day we understand, we don't hurt anymore.

　　The day you understand, we will be complete.

　　The day we understood, we were finally able to embrace our youthful selves and reconcile with our youth.