People who really have a big pattern have these 3 characteristics

Zeng Guofan, a minister in the late Qing Dynasty, said: "Those who plan for major events are the first to focus on the layout."

Many times, the quality of a thing does not depend on itself, but on how we view it.

People who really have a big picture are often able to hold their breath when encountering problems, turn a corner, and stabilize the situation.

hold your breath

Living in this hurried era, everyone wants to see the results as quickly as possible, otherwise, people will be anxious and even choose to give up.

"Will this really work?"

"Is there any need to keep going?"

"Forget it, let's do it later."

But as the saying goes, haste is not enough, everything only pursues speed, and the results may get worse and worse.

People with a high profile are often able to hold their breath, and even when the situation is unfavorable, they can hold back their anger for a while and think about long-term goals.

In the movie "The Shawshank Redemption", innocent Andy was sentenced to life in prison for being involved in the murder of his wife's death.

This means that if there is no accident, he will spend the rest of his life in prison.

On the first night of "Shawshank", Andy witnessed the scene of the prisoner who came with him being beaten to death by prison guards.

Since then, he has calmed down, and even when he was suddenly abused and insulted, he never changed his face.

Andy's various performances made cellmate Rhett feel that he was a very special person.

At first, Rhett thought that young Andy would not stand the test of prison. But as it turns out, he gets through day after day and secretly plans to leave prison.

When Rhett learned that Andy was going to use a hammer to dig a hole to escape, he said it was impossible and that it would take at least 600 years to dig a tunnel with it.

But Andy dug quietly for more than twenty years.

Finally, on a night of thunderstorms, Andy got into the tunnel, climbed nearly 500 meters of foul-smelling sewers, and regained his freedom.

There is a saying: "Life won't keep getting better, and it won't keep getting worse. Keep calm this second, and you will be more confident the next second."

It took 4 years for the bamboo to grow 3 centimeters. From the 5th year, it only took 6 weeks to grow to 15 meters.

So do people. The more a person can hold his breath, the more he can keep the clouds open and see the moonlight after a thousand trials and tribulations.

As the old saying goes: "Those who are impetuous and impetuous will achieve nothing; those who are composed and calm will be self-sufficient."

turn a corner

The thinker Liang Qichao once said: "Change is common, and common is long."

Its meaning is: people's life, there will always be ups and downs, only those who know how to be flexible can stand out.

Isinbayeva, known as the "queen of pole vault", has broken world records 28 times.

In fact, what many people don't know is that she has dreamed of becoming a gymnastics champion since she was a child.

At the age of 5, she was sent to learn gymnastics by her mother. In the gym, she spends a lot of time training every day, lowering her waist, jumping, tossing...

This persistence is 10 years, and Isinbayeva has never slackened.

But as she got older, she grew taller and taller, reaching a height of 1.7 meters at the age of 15.

In the gymnastics team, such height is not an advantage, but will affect her performance in the competition.

At that time, when the athletes were selected for the pole vault project, the coach immediately saw that Isinbayeva was a good seed for practicing pole vaulting.

For her who loves gymnastics, this is a difficult choice, but she also knows that her conditions do not allow it. In order to prevent her dream from being stranded in waiting, she decides to give up gymnastics and start learning pole vaulting.

This change not only allowed Isinbayeva to create her own era of pole vaulting, but also made her a figure in the world of sports.

When faced with life choices, Isinbayeva did not rush forward, but chose to turn around.

Because she understands that not all efforts are worth persevering, and efforts will only be more meaningful if you choose the right direction.

Sometimes, it is not an advantage not to hit the south wall and not turn back. On the contrary, among the horns, learning to turn is the most brilliant wisdom.

Maybe everyone understands this principle, but when a problem arises, very few people can jump out of the "dead end".

After some people fail the college entrance examination, they have never recovered, and are full of disappointment for the future;

After some people's love is injured, they can't think about it, torture themselves, and torture their family members.

After some people's career fails, they have no courage to continue, and even less confidence to start over.

But everything has two sides. People with a pattern will always try to reconcile with life. If they turn around to look at the problem, they may have a different world.

Cartoonist Zheng Xinyao said: "When the road is over, it does not mean that we have reached the end of the road, but reminds us that it is time to turn."

hold on

Someone asked on Zhihu: "What are the signs of those who have a big pattern?"

One of the high praise answers: steady.

Yes, life is like a game of chess. Only when we are stable can we achieve the final victory.

The emergency landing at an altitude of 9,800 meters and a speed of 800 kilometers per hour saved 128 lives in just 34 minutes.

This man is not Superman, but an ordinary Chinese captain, Liu Chuanjian.

On May 14, 2018, Liu Chuanjian was driving flight 3U8633 from Chongqing to Lhasa as usual.

When the plane arrives over the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau, you can see the vertical and horizontal fields and rolling mountains through the porthole.

I thought it would be a smooth flight, but with a loud bang, a crack appeared on the windshield on the right side of the cockpit.

In an instant, the glass was completely shattered, followed by loud noise, severe lack of oxygen, and a low temperature of minus 40 degrees.

At the critical moment, Liu Chuanjian, relying on his stable psychological quality, switched the autopilot to manual, and quickly leveled the plane to prevent it from hitting the mountain.

After the plane flew stably, he worked hard to lower the flight altitude, and under the condition of negative pressure and hypoxia, he still insisted on it for a full 20 minutes before taking the plane out of the mountain.

In the 34 minutes after the accident, he successfully brought 119 passengers and 9 crew members back to the ground with superb operating skills.

Facing the critical juncture of life and death, it is precisely because Liu Chuan is as steady as Mount Tai that he has created a miracle in the history of China's civil aviation.

Zeng Guofan said: "Everything needs to be handled peacefully and gently. If you are in a hurry, you may be wrong."

In life, there are many situations like this:

The vehicle that was about to miss the exit changed lanes in a hurry, and the car lost control and caused a traffic accident;

Arranged by the boss for a business trip, all the things that were prepared have been installed, but the contract was left on the table in a hurry, resulting in the termination of the cooperation;

The child had convulsions after having a fever. The father on the side grabbed the child's throat with his hands in a panic. As a result, the child's heartbeat and breathing stopped...

Unstable in case of trouble, like an invisible time bomb, if it explodes suddenly, it will cause unimaginable consequences.

Real masters often strive for victory while maintaining stability, which can not only ease tensions, but also push things forward.

Being calm can give us the ability to think calmly;

Being able to turn a corner allows us to have the wisdom to follow the road;

Stable, can make us have a calm and calm state of mind;