Ordinary person

If you're looking for some kind of big shot, or some kind of spectacular success in wealth or business, I don't have it.

All I have is a woman with postpartum depression, and I'm just another example of a million stay-at-home moms.

Just think, for 33 years old plain and ordinary life, summary and comparison, actually also inspirational.

I am just a very ordinary very ordinary person, to the society, I am just a small ant.

And to be able to readily admit that I am ordinary, to reconcile with myself, I feel quite remarkable.

Before GIVING BIRTH TO a child, I AM THE company's ordinary small staff, the work is not hard, salary treatment is still, the husband is also considerate, life is satisfied.

The opening of the black curtain, from the birth of children.

My in-laws aren't going to babysit me completely, and neither is my husband.

Old woman think is, occasionally stretch out a hand to help, do not affect her comfortable life, terrible is the husband also think so.

Many marriages, in fact, from the beginning of the children, the beginning of the truth.

Such a contradiction, trivial, in life everywhere, with a write is tens of thousands of words, but I never want to mention.

I like that I don't want to mention, and to this extent, I walked for three years.

I used to go crazy thinking about it.

Ridiculous not, the old woman in thousands of miles away, the husband in the work post, I a person guarding the child, born with a number of gas.

Take the mistakes of others and repeat them over and over again.

Why is he doing this to me?

Now where there are such men, are spoil their wives.

Your wife is the most important person in your marriage.

Your wife is the one who's always there for you.

The article of the public number read more, the whole person is demonic.

With all due respect, a lot of public articles written very well, is a cup of colorful poisoned wine, just for those women who collapse masturbating, men are not a few people to see these kind of truth.

This is still a patriarchal society, even without marriage and infertility. You want absolute equality, unless men can also have children.

Children are particularly clingy, see the child's body hard, every day can not control themselves to think about these messy things psychological hard, not want to understand and respect, more hard.

The whole person is in the mud, fighting with a mass of mud.

Do not know as long as climb up to come, climb up, pat the soil on the body, go forward, even if climb to move, also better than kneeling in the mud.

How much do you hate these people?

With a seemingly tough word, with a lot of curses, to bet decades on the outcome of these so-called villains.

It's silly to think about it now.

Exhausted the whole body strength, to hate, to abuse, to keep complaining, again and again with the husband tear, like Xianglin sister-in-law, and then those problems solved?

One day I read an article about Gossip Hu Ge, saying that he must find a girlfriend that his mother likes. If mom doesn't like it, he won't go out. The article was very subtle, saying that he had great respect for his mother. I laughed in my heart, this is not a typical mama's boy.

You see, even their favorite idols are like this.

Such a man in China, if a billboard falls, will hit one.

Postpartum depression, every day is not happy, understand you very few people, in addition to a quagmire kneeling people.

Even their own biological parents do not understand, although they really love themselves.

Sometimes think, I all the way to study everything stronger, actually is to live such a day. My partners became POTS and pans, my job consisted of countless chores, and I had a perverted boss, my son, 24 hours, no hours, no weekends, no ego, and no income.

Unexpectedly also have no confidence, in the mall to buy buy?

Countless articles write women to self-reliance to independent, how do I independent?

Women have to make money to have self-esteem, how do I make money?

You see all those stay-at-home moms, watching their kids make all that money?

The somebody else?

You see, stay-at-home mothers are at the bottom of the social chain, and even their children will look down on you when they grow up.

I don't need society to despise me, I have despised myself countless times.

When you finally get to kindergarten and you realize you still can't get to work, you still break down.

You'll make peace with yourself, and you'll never go back, unless you don't have the baby.

How do you spell mother?

Think of a single parent family, bring the child damage is irreparable.

Every adult, a lifetime of healing childhood.

Now think of the most sad time, said will shed tears, mostly happened in childhood.

Marriage to me, what gave me, how much I lost.

For a long time, I became a classic anti-marriage person. I sneer at girls who have just fallen in love or just got married and smile like a witch staring at death, wait for the abyss behind.

Follow the husband work change came to this strange city, a person to know all have no, I play with myself, I talk with myself, live like a madman, like a fool.

When did it start to change?

I do realize that we all have similar lives. Yes, every woman is struggling in the same river.

It's just that some of us can swim.

If you swim straight ahead, you'll have a chance of landing.

When my kids went to school, I started reading again, to books I hated, like Success Studies.

What you don't like is more important to you.

Look at the things you don't like, the things you don't like, the people you don't like, and learn how they exist.

So I learned

A lot of trouble is actually want to come out of their own, not necessarily true

Whatever comes in your life, just deal with it. Don't dream about it.

Live in the present, what you know today, even if you cut a crooked paper cut while studying in Douyin, it is also a kind of progress.

You need to get back into the world.

Life is like eating pears, don't always eat those rotten pears.

Take a moment and ask yourself what you enjoy. It's not shopping, it's not watching TV, it's not watching movies, it's not gossiping.

If you really don't know, try everything.

Start to take notes again. Where you write down and forget, look at it when you have nothing to do.

And so I crawled, little by little.

Get out of that mud.

Although I can't help thinking about the bad things once in a while, I can quickly shift my focus.

Don't be angry with the past, step back breast tumor, further uterine cyst, is this I learn in the public number.

Learn to control your emotions, especially not to bring them to your children.

Learn to be happy, although difficult, but I began to do.

This is my story.

I'm still the same person, unemployed.

But I'm not the same person I used to be, and I'm holding my head high

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