Low laughing point is fun

My husband has a new company, and I heard that his boss is from my hometown, a brisk northeastern man, who is still generous and enthusiastic despite his age. I can't help but laugh: "enthusiasm is the nature of northerners, and has nothing to do with age." My husband was also happy, "You, you have a low laughing point, is such a small thing also funny?" I nodded my head like garlic, of course, listening to you talk nonsense is very funny ah. He immediately put on a submissive look and bowed to me, looking at his funny face, I laughed, even more, and the family atmosphere suddenly showed harmony.

Three days later his boss invited us to visit, competing to meet the boss's wife who has a lower laughing point than me. The supervisor's surname is Liu, we call his wife Mrs. Liu. When I saw the blonde Mrs. Liu, I didn't know whether to speak English or Chinese, so I froze in my place in a panic. Mrs. Liu laughed even more and came over to pull me into a seat, but I wondered: a little embarrassment, not much fun at all, the foreigners' laughing nerves are really sensitive.

During the meal, Mrs. Liu simply burst out laughing: she laughed when the man drank from the wrong cup; she laughed when she took the hot sauce as ketchup; she laughed when she talked about our childhood embarrassment, this American woman also laughed. The funniest thing is that we are infected by her and can not help but laugh, the whole meal down feels very comfortable. There was no hierarchy and no restraint among the subordinates as if the most primitive equality and closeness between people had been restored.

During the break when Mrs. Liu went downstairs to get the courier, Mr. Liu talked to us about his previous marriage. The company's first and foremost business is to provide a service to its customers. From the male point of view, he does not feel that women laughing out of order, that is very bold, but also very cheerful. When you hear a woman around you laughing, he will think it's funny, and even exclaim: Wow, the air in this world has become very fresh. However, his ex-wife's leathery smile is weird, and he often can't tell whether she is happy or not.

After the divorce, Mr. Liu went to the United States for a vacation and met his current wife. He said he could not imagine that her laughing point was super low, and he found it amusing when she laughed at something that was not very funny in itself, so they lived a particularly happy life.

I was listening to a story like ours, and I couldn't help but look at my husband, who was gazing at me with the same affection. A tacit understanding of each other and laughing, the husband agreed to hold the hand of Liu's boss: is the same way, ah, my wife is also a very low laughing point.

I saw the happy glow in my own man's eyes, I realized that the laughing point is lower, the couple's feelings are stronger, but also more loving. The first thing you need to do is to look through our college graduation album, each one of which I smiled brightly, while some of my classmates only politely moved the corners of their mouths, and then they mixed with the workplace every day with a bitter face and did not give their husbands a good look at home, the smile became a luxury. Slowly, according to my understanding of the less smiling students, several people's marriages have unfortunately died.

In fact, in a society with such a high divorce rate, it is not easy to have a solid relationship, not each other to passing water and pouring tea is called a good wife and mother, the most important thing is to let him feel relaxed and happy, low laughing point of women sometimes do not coax is laughing, always make the man like a spring breeze. Why do many people look at the "Angel Love Beauty", the plot can be recited backward. It is because they like the heroine's quirky smile like to see her laughing to help people around her solve all the problems like to see her laughing to envision their happiness, as long as she is laughing, all the trivial troubles of life become interesting.

Mrs. Liu's laughing point is even lower than mine, and every time our two families are together, we are happy, often laughing over a small thing, and will pass on our smiles to others. Once, I traveled to Xitang, Zhejiang Province, and brought her back a local specialty native cloth ethnic shawl, in early summer, she was already wearing a short-sleeved T-shirt, but happily put it on, and then smiled at herself in the mirror for a long time. I couldn't help but laugh along: Oh, dear, enough is enough. It's already beautiful, but aren't you hot? We hugged each other and laughed out loud, thinking that it was fun to be beautiful and enjoy ourselves. The laughter spread and her neighbors curiously ran over to join in the fun, the neighboring aunt saw us in the summer with a strange shawl, but also can not help but laugh. Focusing on the subtle joys of life and spreading laughter to our loved ones as well as our friends and relatives, it seems that we have earned it because they are happy and will give us the greatest happiness in return.

Another time, I went to a kindergarten with Mrs. Liu for a parent-child meeting. Her son deliberately wrote with his left hand, and she was watched with a smile on her face. When the child broke the pen by writing a heavy stroke, Mrs. Liu laughed out loud. Other parents are looking at her with a serious faces, surely thinking: What's so funny about this? The woman is not a normal mother, she is not urging her children to hurry up and change their hands to write. But in my eyes, Mrs. Liu is a very dedicated mother compared to those serious parents. At least her laughter brings the children the hint that we can simply have fun. So, I dutifully sat down with her for half an hour and watched as the child made frequent mistakes and our series of laughs echoed through the parent-child room, earning praise from the teacher: what a relaxing lesson.

Recently, Mrs. Liu's tomatoes grew a large and small conjoined fruit, which was too common, but she brought it to me to show me, "Look, it's so funny and amazing, let's give it a name, it's a magical pair. I couldn't bear to say she was making a fuss, so I had to take a closer look, and the more I looked, the more interesting it was. The conjoined tomatoes had grown a comic face, and my face, which had been somewhat expressionless at first, quietly and unconsciously burst into a smile. Mrs. Liu was even more surprised by this: Honey, I knew you would be as happy as I was.

Now I have a low laughing point, plus Mrs. Liu has a super low laughing point of the two people, almost every day happy life. Husbands doting on us at all times will hang on the mouth printed in the heart, perhaps they run around too heavy, life is too complicated, often difficult to laugh up, have a low laughing point wife mobilization good. And my tear point is very high, because I am worth a lot of happy things, worth crying about less and less, for those who laugh too high always think that nothing is worth the joy of the woman, I can only give heartfelt advice: do not bring too much baggage forward, the desire to complex, demanding nature you will not laugh, accidentally become an ice beauty, then, marital happiness is worrying.