Is Love Like Finding the Perfect Shoes?

As looking for a pair of shoes one has been after for so long, dating too can take time, energy as well as lots of effort. Still all the glitz and glamour; it’s all about fitting in.

But as far as dating situations go, I have been in other ones that just seemed strange, similar to wearing shoes that are too tight so they give my toes a pinch. Those never lasted.

Writing about relationships, it is crucial to say that only those that are built with the people whom we truly love should not require an effort. It can be said that people speak to one another without an obvious pause and any silence that occurs is acceptable.

I believe that my perfect match knows how I express my affection and how I expect it to be given back and so do I.

During the trying periods of life, I am constantly reminded of this subject, and vice versa. We are friends rather close, and we know this connection is a blend of passions and silences. Well if things are good then I know I can deal with everything and endure it to make sure this has to work.

But one can get rusty on the job. I may develop an attitude where I turn into a critic, or I may feel that my partner is no longer the person I used to be with me. Perhaps it is not them; it may be that the fire requires a little dusty-off and a couple of strokes before it bursts into life again.

Healthy relationships require work. It is important to work together and differentiate between requirements as a great record can only be made when we combine our thoughts and ideas.

Loving can be described as simple, but maintaining love can be a quite complicated thing. This attribute only illustrates that it is easier to have a person to blame than to step back and evaluate if I am also doing my part.

Thus, one cannot speak of ‘the right person,’ you have to work on the relationship and make it evolve and flourish. Therefore it can be concluded that self-analysis as well as communication with one’s partner are two keys to a successful and happy marriage.

Thank you for reading!