Infatuation is a disease that is difficult to cure

When I open a few magazines in my spare time, every article is a dead love-hate relationship. Perhaps women are animals who live for their feelings, and once a rational, mature woman falls in love, she will lose her mind. Pédorffy a famous poem written to call for freedom, after the use of many infatuated people, only the first two lines remain: "Life is valuable, love is more expensive." Infatuation has evolved into a strange disease.

　　The disease of infatuation is also like any other disease, the disease comes like a mountain, and the disease goes like silk. When love comes, no one will pursue its cause. Any logical reasoning and scientific formulas do not apply to love, the magic of love makes countless people often "know that they can not do it for". However, after the death of love, the root of the problem, the pursuit of a hundred times a day, sinking self-abuse has almost become a common problem. In particular, the loss of the love of women, and the heart have a hundred thousand reasons, such as "why he does not love me anymore" and so on. These why let the women in the love of the monologue sink, sink until sunk.

　　All of us have been sick at one time or another. When you are in sickness, a weak body, a haggard face, and a painful expression will make your loved ones full of pity and devoted care. But would you want to stay sick because you are attached to this pity and care? Likewise, we have all had the feeling of recovering from a serious illness. At that time, the smile of relief on the face of a loved one is brighter than the sunshine outside the hospital. Who wouldn't want to get well sooner for that smile?

　　However, all this logic does not apply to women who are sick in infatuation. They always want to use their resentment and hatred to touch a heart that no longer belongs to them. How difficult it is! Not to mention how hopeless it is to do so, even if that heart still has a little bit of your place, will his pain make you more happy and satisfied than his happiness? I appreciate Zhang Xiaofeng's quote, "No matter when what I love most is your smile." There is no greater true love than this. Chen Wenxi, a famous Taiwanese current affairs commentator and program host, who was called "the smartest woman in Taiwan" by Li Ao, said this: "I can't necessarily love someone for a long time, but I am very capable of breaking up with someone, whether I am negative or someone is negative to me. " She took my breath away.

　　To cure infatuation, one must learn to forget. No one can erase the imprint of life, but we can choose to forget the hurt to remember the good. Clear the overgrown weeds on the road of life, leaving flowers and green trees, then, whenever you look back, you see the beauty and sunshine. "Love is only an episode in life, not the only life, and not the whole life. Life, always above love." This is a famous quote from a sociologist.

　　Yes, infatuation is shortchanging life. Life is always above love.

　　What is infatuation? Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai? Or Romeo and Juliet? They are not. They are called devoted love. The difference between devoted love and infatuation is that - devoted love is the love of two lovers together, regardless of whether they can finally be married; while infatuation in most cases refers to unrequited love, regardless of the light and dark, that is, completely self-made love.

　　Infatuation is the "love" that is predicated on "infatuation", which itself has a derogatory meaning. The demented or foolish, to their mind the so-called love, stubbornly hanging in a tree, dull wait for a lifetime, there are suspicions of carving a boat to seek the sword. People who have experienced hanging know that when the rope is stuck in the neck, the eyes will turn white and the vision is blurred. This is how people hang from a tree, from the moment they hang, they can no longer see the other love in front of them. And the love that is tightly pulled is nothing more than a trick in the memory, it did love, but only after it was created, did it die and stayed there like a stillborn child. Even if you can pick it up one day as you wish, you will find that it turns out to be dead.

　　Infatuation is a disease, but it is easily touted by outsiders as some kind of will or belief. Perhaps it is because many people have sympathy for the weak and the losers, to the infatuated easily with some kind of recognition or praise, even if they do not agree, they can not bear to fall on the well. As the so-called "sincerity, gold and stone for open", infatuation will be maintained in this environment, and eventually cocooned in their woven love confinement for life. Encouraging the infatuated is like supporting his drug addiction, which will only make him fall deeper and deeper.

　　Infatuation is a disease, a disease that hurts people and hurts themselves. Love is selfish, but it is definitely for two people, whether it is the fruit of two people or not. The lovers can not get love, naturally, is painful, but at the same time put on a fearless posture, there is a "not to the yellow river heart will not die" atmosphere. The spirit is certainly commendable, but the more so, the more it will give the loved one a heavy burden, tormenting their conscience, so that the other party can not easily pursue their love. Just like when rushing, you always feel a shadow behind you, how can you feel at ease? There are people who, because of their soft hearts, turn around to appease the infatuated person, only to be mistaken as a sign of "acceptance", thus aggravating the infatuated person's condition and exacerbating their anxiety. Other people choose to be submissive and passively accept love when it is not born, which turns out to be a mistake that they can never get rid of. And the love that the infatuated person gets after all the hard work is often not what he or she envisioned, and this sad discrepancy can instantly destroy the perfect love in the heart.

　　Infatuation is a sign of cowardice, stagnation, and immortality. Love needs to be prepared and created, not with an "infatuation" waiting or holding on. The opportunity is always reserved for those who are prepared, and so is love.

　　The only antidote to infatuation is to find the courage to look for a new love without any distractions.