How dirty is the dirtiest person you've ever seen?

How dirty is the dirtiest person you've ever seen?

My brother brought home a girlfriend who had beautiful features, a tall figure, big round eyes, and very clean and fashionable clothes. But after she had been staying with me for a week, I realized that this was just a facade. She was probably the dirtiest girl I had ever seen!

The first time I saw Yiyi (my brother's girlfriend), I thought she was very tall, very fashionable, with long nails that I admired (my own nails have always been very short), dark hair, and very nice clothes. Everyone said my brother had found a beautiful girlfriend!

It was the hottest time of the year in Xiamen, in August or so, a person to the outdoors will be sweating, more sun for a while can be heatstroke degrees, indoor is not to close the air conditioning, but, but in such a hot situation, my brother that girlfriend to do some behavior, really let my stomach roll...

The first day, she came to our home, my mother called her to the restaurant to have dinner, she did not come out, the mouth said OK, come right away, in fact, has been lying on the bed to play games, finally is my brother brought the rice to the bed for her to eat, she continued to play games!

Three meals a day like this, the door of the room did not leave, my mother thought it was not suitable for young people, so after dinner, I asked my brother to take her out to play, after a long time of talking, dragged her to the downstairs of the community for a walk!

While she was out, my mother asked me to clean the room, by the way to help my brother's room sweep, as a result, I entered my brother's room, really scared, this is like a room ah, this bed where there is a bed appearance......

Really like pigsty, all over the ground melon seed shell, peel, beer bottles, soot bomb a ground, these are all forget, this bed actually have rice and some dishes, I - see immediately spit out......

Before they came back, I just cleaned, my mother heard that brother was going to bring his girlfriend back, specially called me to clean up, and asked me to bring perfume, make the room fragrant, she said that girls love clean, love perfume, so that each other have a good impression!

As a result, I've been living here less than a day and I'm in such a mess... My brother, I know, because my mother is a neat freak, he dare not to clean, he might be beaten up, so he also developed a habit of love clean, I really can not understand that a girl can be so messy!

However, in the following days, I refreshed my understanding of girls' love of cleanliness. Maybe we are all wrong, girls do not always love cleanliness..

Before they have not come back, I put on a mask to clean the room, swearing in my heart, angry me, so dirty actually let me clean, but I don't clean, my mother has to go, that she may not eat for several days!

When I finish cleaning up for a while they came back, my brother entered the room, saw the messy room is fragrant and neat, asked me to clean, gave me 500 yuan, said "labor fee", by..... If it were anyone else, I'd beat him to tears! But the girl he brought home was his girlfriend, visiting our house for the first time. I can't stand it!

To take a bath time, we all have not washed, call my brother girlfriend to go first, I went to the room to call her: elder sister, you go to take a bath, and so on - next to line up!

She -- listen to me, eyes glance at me -- eye: shower what? I didn't go out today, so I'm not going to wash it. You wash it yourself!

I was shocked by her, big sister, the temperature outside is almost 40℃, you don't take a bath? Didn't go out? Come on, I don't care if you're out or not, but you just got off the train at noon. Does that mean you're out?

When I stood there staring at him, she said, "Look at what? I don't really take a shower. I took one the other day!

When she said that, I had acid reflux again. I'll see you soon. Oh, come on, are you still a girl? Look at her, I don't want to talk to her! I got goose bumps from what she said!

However, she did not take a bath is not the most upsetting thing for me, but, she lived in our home for nearly 10 days, never changed clothes, don't believe it, if not witnessed, I really can not imagine!

The day after they got back, my mom asked me to do the laundry, and specifically told me to remember to wash all of my brother's girlfriend's clothes with her. To show our family cared about her, my mom made me do the laundry by hand.

However, when I went to ask her for clothes, she looked at me and said: sister, do you have a problem with your head?

I was stunned. I just came to ask you for clothes and wash your clothes. You scolded me: eh? Sister, what's wrong? Did I make you angry?

She smiled again and said: I didn't take a bath yesterday, where am I going to wash your clothes? Oh, come on. Do you like laundry that much? Wait a few more days, I change down for you to wash ha!

I threw up again. Oh, my God, where did this woman come from? Is that so weird? It's so scary... When she said this, I ran away and didn't want to be in their room for a second. It was terrible!

So, they are at home for a few days, my daily task is to clean up for them, the woman every day in bed to eat even if, and special love snacks, all kinds of fried snacks, eat everywhere on the bed, she also especially love to eat duck neck, duck intestines, stinky tofu, durian and so on, the taste of the whole room.........

Honestly, I don't know if my brother is out of his mind. How could he be interested in such a person? Really not much beautiful, character can not say how good, at least I haven't seen her any advantages!

I thought it was the limit for her to leave her room so dirty that she could not take a shower for a few days, but in the past week, she still didn't change her clothes. If it was winter, if it was the Great North, if it was a coat, it would be understandable, but now it is the hottest day of the year, it is unimaginable that she didn't change her underwear and intimate clothes...

This really refreshed my understanding of girls. It was amazing that such a beautiful girl was so "casual"!

Later, after they went out to work, my mother said nothing to agree with them together, said she could not accept such a girl in our family, and finally between them is not!

I thought about it carefully, in fact, the girl itself is not bad, if she pays a little attention to the image, it would be better, so, why my mother strongly disagree with them together? The reasons are:

My mother is a neat freak. She could not understand this girl's habits. She was also afraid that after she came home, the house would be polluted!

② Very impolite, the first time to someone's home, even do not want to eat out, want others to go in, this is the behavior of a child! How can an adult be so "casual"?

No matter how close you are to others, how good your feelings are, the most basic image and behavior should be decent, so that others are willing to get along with us, rather than seeing us "shun"!

So, how do we become a likable person?

① Pay attention to your image. When we get along with people for the first time, our external image is very important. Whether it is the workplace, or the woman or the man, the first impression often determines the final result.

② Pay attention to your behavior. You should know what to say and what not to say, and be warm and friendly to others.

If arrogant and rude, a superior will easily cause others to dislike, if please flattery, subservience is harmful to their own personality, easy to let people look down on their own.

To sum up, when we deal with people, we should put image first. We should let others have a good impression on you. We should dress neatly, be clean and fresh in every word and act, and speak politely and gently.