Being single for a long time is scary.

People are always different from people.

Some people get married in their early 20s, and some people get married in their early 20s, but they fall in love soon after they are single for a while.

There are also some people who remain single for many years after their twenties.

I haven't been in a relationship for three years, five years, eight years, even more than 10 years.

Just like that has always been a person, never into who's life, never let who into their own life.

Some people may think that it is not abnormal to be young, to fall in love and to be single for a long time. However, different people have different circumstances and different ways of living, which is not unreasonable.

There's nothing abnormal about being single for a long time. It's just that being single for a long time can be scary.

Get used to it, love desire is lower and lower.

The end of one love, will soon open the next love, simply can't stand alone, the desire for love, is very strong, simply can't stand their own life alone.

Having been single for a long time is really different. After so many years, he has already adapted to deal with everything by himself.

Maybe in other people's eyes, no matter where we go, there should be someone to accompany us, and when we return home, there should always be someone to accompany us. But in his eyes, he can do everything alone, even if it is watching movies alone or going shopping alone.

Even if the house was empty when he got home, no one else, no one left the light on for him, he would not feel much.

He is so used to this life that he does not feel lonely, but enjoys it.

It is because he has adapted to such a life, so rashly let a person come to their own world, he can not do some, also don't want to, the heart will be more resistant, feel that he can not adapt.

His desire for love is really not high at all, and even decreased year by year. He thinks it is good to live alone like this, and there is nothing wrong with it. He likes it very much and is particularly adapted to it.

Clearly a normal adult, inexplicably, he is so ascetic, as if there is no desire.

Very strange, afraid to get along with the opposite sex.

Too many things, are never born, all need practice, practice makes perfect.

Getting along with the opposite sex is also the same, if the opposite sex is less in contact, in a number of years have never entered a love, so in the face of love, in the face of the opposite sex, really will be some criminal fear.

Just ordinary colleagues, ordinary friends, then everything is ok, I will not have any different feelings, once involved between men and women, it is blind date, not simple get along, will be a little at a loss.

Always feel some uncomfortable, do not know how to say better, do not know how to do, will be more appropriate.

I don't know why, I always feel very uncomfortable, feel this is not good, that is not good, there is no way to relax.

Because I am too nervous and embarrassed, I always want to avoid such a situation. Even if I have a good feeling for a person, I am not willing to approach him at all. When someone is nice to me, my first reaction is just to run away.

Even if they still like themselves, very satisfied with themselves, but in front of the opposite sex, but always do not know what the other side like yourself, always will appear very not confident, do not believe that they can handle the relationship with each other.

As early as year after year of single years, lose the ability to love a person, forget exactly how to fall in love.

More picky, off the single far away.

Some people may feel that after being single for a long time, they will be eager to leave the state. In order to really get out of this situation, you might even want to grab someone as long as they're of the right gender.

In fact, in real life, will have this idea, has never been only a minority.

A person who has been single for a long time already has the ability to live alone, even if it is just a person, he can often live well, rather than just want to find someone, he will only be more demanding of the other half.

Will not be willing to casually with a person together, and the other party began, and even love and marriage, let the other party disturb their rhythm, so that they are not as good as a person, the day just becomes worse.

Only when a person is really good in all aspects, she feels relatively satisfied, with the other person, will obviously live better than alone, the quality of life will be higher, one plus one is completely greater than or equal to two, he will want to try.

He will feel, marry casually, if still not as good as a person, then it is better not to marry.

Therefore, because he always wants more and has higher requirements for the quality of the relationship, he will easily reject many possibilities.

As a result, you may have been single for a long time, but it seems that you will remain single forever, and you never know when you will be able to say goodbye. After all, people like that are never easy to meet.

Single too long, everything will become a habit, will become a kind of nature.

After that, it's like I'm stuck in there and I just want to live in this comfort zone.

However, always staying in such a comfort zone, the comfort zone will gradually become smaller and smaller, so that a person becomes more and more silent, also become more and more unable to go out.

In the present, one can indeed be ok and take care of oneself.

Even so, it is best not to give up on love too soon, too early to refuse to love.

Even if not used to, do not adapt to, but also to try, to take the initiative, to slowly learn.

Let oneself experience, let oneself be able to find a good love, a person is happy, two people will be more rich, more let a person feel meaningful life.