A good seed, if not sown, will not produce fruitful results

We often say that what comes easily, you will not know how to cherish.

In fact, it is not true that what you get easily, you will be afraid to lose.

Because you earned it, what is more valuable is your ability to get it. And grabbed from others, you will be afraid to lose, bent on grasping firmly in the hands.

Have you ever wondered why the shrimp is dead, and then put in the pot to burn, the taste is not so good?

Because the living shrimp, when thrown into the pot of bursting oil, it hurts, all shrunken, screaming: "I X, it hurts dad!" Then the shrimp twist, stretch, curl up and die in a ball, the flesh is tight, QQ bounce.

On the contrary, the dead shrimp thrown into the pot, it did not feel no response, lying on all fours, the more the meat burned loose.

Will die shrimp also can not, dying, weakly spit out a sentence: "ouch ouch pain." And died.

When the year ran to the Songhua River to eat fish, that fresh and smooth, the praise.

The same reason, these silly fish grew up in the cold river water, and no cotton wool pants to wear, shivering in the cold. They swim frantically every day for warmth, fighting chills, shouting violently all the way to.

"Dog thing you freeze to death moncler outlet!"

In this way, shrinking body development, fat and tight and fat, delicious to war.

The meat of the Australian dragon is more tightly popped than the crayfish. Because they live in the sea, the water pressure is very strong, every day was overwhelmed, walk two steps and have to shout three: "Hey yo hey!" Like the dock slimmer, the body is tight. Pressed and pressed, the meat is dense and thick, a bite of "croak croak".

So crawfish to taste, go to the restaurant can not, to their own rush to the logistics market, where the provinces are just shipped back to the goods, before landing.

Open the box, the crayfish inside the head up, jumping samba, but also a glare, glancing at you obliquely. See it this bird look, you still do not fuck it! Hurry to buy back to wash and rinse the frying pan.

I was talking to an older friend about this.

He held a glass of wine, sighed and said: "Is this the same as feelings? With the hard years, you can make sweet. The common suffering, the same sweet especially gorgeous."

I froze: "Damn, I don't know."

He said, "After I had my daughter, I suddenly found myself wanting to give her everything I had. She was the product of an accident, born out of plan. But when she came into the world, I suddenly found a new meaning. Let's just say that the thing I'm most anxious about is thinking every day about what else I can give her to make her happy and satisfied. I hate to give her my life."

He took a sip of wine and said, "No exaggeration, I am sincere, I really want to give all my life to my daughter."

I froze for a moment and asked, "What about your wife?"

He was silent and spoke, "I've already given my life to my daughter, so, that's it."

I said, "I change my understanding, eaters can also eat out of reason. For example, now girls are moving to find a man, a house, car, work all implemented man, material life has been close to the perfect man. But this ready-made economic conditions, just like a pot of dead shrimp, they have not suffered, directly floppy fried good in your bowl. They are bright-skinned, yet the flesh is loose and smells bad, and they cry when you eat them, and they have diarrhea the next day."

My friend said, "Well, that's what happened to my wife. I'm thinking, for example, right, two people working together to pay off the mortgage and usher in a house that you open the door the moment you open it, only to be filled with joy and gratitude and cherish the home."

In fact, I understand that after they met, the girl is bent on catching the still-rich man, through various means, the two combined.

Three years ago, a friend's family of three, and the project investor's family, a joint trip to Thailand.

He bought a bunch of luxury goods for his wife in the duty-free store, and she was so happy that she agreed to go collectively to watch a siren show.

After the show, the sirens formed a long line to send off the guests. My friend was so excited that he kissed one of the most beautiful sirens, greeted her and shouted "I love you".

The lady flipped out.

She said, "What do you mean?"

My friend said, "What do I mean, what can I do?"

She said, "I don't feel good when you do that."

The friend said, "Well, then let's go."

She said, "Do you think this siren is prettier than me?"

The friend looked at the investor's family, felt embarrassed, subconsciously flirting to eliminate embarrassment, snorted and said, "Of course the siren is beautiful, otherwise how to come out to mix."

Mrs. shouted: "Didn't you say you would only find me beautiful in this life?"

Everyone was speechless, and my friend said, "Let's go let's go."

We often say that what is easy to get, will not know how to cherish.

In fact, not, easy to get, you will be afraid to lose.

Because you earned it, what is more valuable is your ability to get it. And what you grab from others, you will be afraid of losing and want to firmly grasp in your hands.

My friend's wife was overwhelmed with the fear of losing his heart.

Back at the hotel, the friend was drinking with the project investor in his room, and the two men opened their laptops, searching for that most beautiful siren profile, pointing at the screen and exclaiming, it's fucking beautiful.

The wife comes in, her face is green, smashes the laptop, turns around and leaves.

The friend apologizes to the investor, calls the wife's phone off, and rushes out to find her.

Both forgot about their four-year-old daughter.

The little girl ran out of the open door of her room on her own, plunged headlong into a street with heavy traffic, and was cut up by a tricycle.

No life-threatening injuries, concussion, and has been deaf in her left ear ever since.

Three years later, a friend was sitting in this bar, listening to me babble about the reasoning behind eating.

He said if he could, he would like to give his life to his daughter.

When he said it, his daughter was sleeping deeply and woke up with only her right ear to hear the melodies of the world.

When he said that, he cried a lot and his bag contained the divorce papers.

We all know that only after the storm can we see the rainbow.

But we all hope that it is better to sit directly in the rainbow, others have laid out for you a gorgeous world.

Unfortunately, others set up the scenery for you, he can withdraw at any time.

So, the shrimp should be eaten alive and burned, pain out of the freshness, only enough to turn the world upside down.