A woman experiences heartbreak from a relationship with a man and comes to the lake to calm herself. Almost everything seems hopeless because heartbreak is equal to physical pain, but it will not bleed from blood. One man comes to her and asks if she is okay. She wipes her tears and tells her story about her boyfriend.
Her boyfriend is a manipulator and a liar. But because of love, everything is like a paradise.
A man approaches her and asks, "Do you want to avoid this kind of situation? I can help you. But first, you must have self-respect."
All right. Tell me
There are 9 ways to avoid manipulation.
1. You take action. If you prefer doing things rather than just thinking about them and have clear goals, it is harder for others to distract you.
2. You must set your boundaries. You focus on what's important to you and don't let others influence your decisions easily. You help others but don't get too involved in their affairs.
3. You set boundaries. You know how far others can go and set consequences if they cross those lines. This makes people respect you.
4. You demand respect. I know respect must be earned but some cases do happen. You deserve respect and quickly notice when someone treating you badly. You should set high standards for how others should treat you.
5. You stand up to bullies. Bullies can't push you around. You resist and overcome them, making it clear you won't be intimidated.
6. You don't blame yourself. You don't regret things too much and take responsibility when needed. This makes you less likely to fall for manipulators.
7. You use time to your advantage. It is hard to provoke you. Instead, you take time to gain control in a situation and avoid being influenced by others.
8. You express your opinion clearly. You aren't afraid to say how you want to be treated. You prioritize your needs and communicate them.
9. You say no when needed. You are not afraid to refuse if you're not comfortable with something. You don't let peer pressure affect you.
This is the thing you need to take dearly. You will thank me later. I will see you around. The man gets up and leaves her behind.
The woman just sit there and think about the advice just have been given. Whoever the man is. She is grateful to have given her such handy advice.
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