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Your Place or Mine Movie Review

Debbie and Peter are best friends and total opposites. She craves routine with her son in LA, but he thrives on change in NY. When they swap houses and lives for a week, they discover what they think they want might not be what they really need

By Desu GopiPublished 3 years ago 3 min read

The classic Hollywood romantic comedy, once a staple of pop culture, has faded into obscurity in recent years. Gone are the days when any two popular actors thrown together in a mildly inconvenient situation could generate romance and sell tickets. Nowadays, meet cutes and grand declarations of love are few and far between. The latest addition to this dwindling genre, "Your Place or Mine," is a pleasant diversion, but it falls short of reminding us what we've been missing.

The film's not-yet-couple, single mom Debbie (played by Reese Witherspoon) and wealthy bachelor Peter (Ashton Kutcher), are longtime best friends who live on opposite coasts. Though they started with a one-night-stand in the early 2000s, they soon transitioned into a loving friendship. Their cross-gender companionship is a refreshing change from the typical Hollywood portrayal of romantic relationships, which often relegate male and female characters to stereotypical roles. However, the movie's treatment of their friendship leaves much to be desired, as it seems to imply that any compatible friends are just waiting to become lovers.

Debbie and Peter decide to swap cities and apartments for a week, with her attending a seminar in New York and him taking care of her son in Los Angeles. Over the course of the week, they experience flings, revelations, and self-discovery, leading to a creeping suspicion that they may be in love with each other. The director, Aline Brosh McKenna, deserves credit for keeping the protagonists apart for the entire film and using split-screen to visually interact with each other. However, a series of escalating developments inadvertently makes both characters less sympathetic. If you root for them to end up together, it's only because it would be better to limit their madness to one household.

The standout performance in the film belongs to Tig Notaro, who plays Debbie's droll sounding board in Los Angeles. Steve Zahn also impresses in his return to his 2000s goofy-sidekick mode, although his character is underwritten. It's frustrating that so many romcoms feature more interesting supporting characters than the leads. Their efforts, however, can only do so much to liven up a drab movie.

Undoubtedly, there's a warm-blanket effect to watching a film like "Your Place or Mine"; it's easy, comforting, and requires nothing of the viewer. But that's precisely why such movies are rare these days. They're a trifle in an era of endless content, and while they may be pleasant, who has time for merely pleasant?

The traditional Hollywood romantic comedy (romcom) seems to have lost its place in contemporary culture. Two decades ago, throwing together two well-known actors in a mildly inconvenient situation was all that was needed to create a hit film that tugged at the heartstrings of audiences everywhere. However, nowadays, the classic "meet cute" and climactic declarations of love have become a rare commodity.

It is somewhat ironic that "Your Place or Mine," a film that had the potential to remind us of the beauty of romcoms, ultimately serves as a reminder of why such films are entertaining but ultimately forgettable.

The film follows the story of Debbie (played by Reese Witherspoon), a single mom, and her wealthy best friend Peter (Ashton Kutcher). After a one-night-stand in their youth, they transitioned into a deep and lasting friendship, which they have maintained despite living on opposite coasts.

However, when Debbie needs to be in New York for a seminar, and Peter needs to be in Los Angeles to take care of Debbie's son, the pair decide to switch cities and apartments for a week. During this week, both Debbie and Peter experience a series of events that lead them to question the nature of their relationship, and whether they might be falling in love with each other.

Director Aline Brosh McKenna's choice to keep the protagonists apart for the entire film is an effective technique, and she employs split-screen to allow the friends to interact visually. However, as the story progresses, both Peter and Debbie become increasingly unsympathetic, making it hard for the viewer to root for them. In fact, if anything, one might be convinced that it is best for them to remain apart and limit their madness to one household.

The standout performances in the film come from Tig Notaro, who plays Debbie's witty and sarcastic sounding board in Los Angeles, and Steve Zahn, who brings back his goofball sidekick mode from the 2000s, in a role that could have used more screen time. It is a shame that so many romcoms tend to have more interesting characters in supporting roles than in the lead roles.

While "Your Place or Mine" undoubtedly has a comforting and warm-blanket effect, it is easy to see why films like these are becoming increasingly rare. In a world of endless content, a film that is merely pleasant simply does not cut it.

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About the Creator

Desu Gopi

Writing has been my passion since I was 9 years old. I love creating stories from fiction, poetry, fanfiction. I enjoy writing movie reviews. I would love to become a creative writing teacher and leave the world inspiring minds.

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