Would you marry someone you don't love?

"Would you marry someone you didn't love?" I think for most people, the answer is no.

Who doesn't want to find a true love and live a happy, sweet life? Unfortunately, many things often do not work out, in the young age, because of various reasons to lose love, in the future days, seven crutches, can not find the right person.

In a trance age is getting older, under the pressure of parents, relatives and friends have to face blind dates, have to force themselves to find a suitable person to marry, have children, live.

We have often heard that a marriage without love will never last, but is this really the case?

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Recently, I read Kazuo Ishiguro's The End of the Day, the hero is named Stevens. In addition, there is an important female role in the book -- Miss Kenton, who is Stevens's partner's housekeeper, responsible for the coordination and arrangement of nanny, cleaning lady, laundress and other work.

Miss Kenton is very fond of Mr Stevens, but because of the lack of a clear answer to Stevens for so long, she chooses to marry suitable.

For many years, she often regretted not marrying the man she loved and wondered what life would have been like with Stevens.

She thought about divorcing her husband, but decided not to, because she was sure of his companionship and support over the decades of marriage.

Even if there is a regret of love, regret of the past, but she also knows that she should embrace the stability and happiness of the present, admit the lack of the past, and then cherish the present.

In the world, no one does not want to marry the person they like, no one is willing to be wronged in marriage.

But the reality is, a lot of people married don't like people, a lot of people can only be wronged in the marriage, everyone in the heart with a very important person, and then live together, you know that he does not love you, he also knows that there is someone else in his heart.

Not everyone is lucky enough to meet the right person at the right age to get married.

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There is a saying in the Age of Two Nuclei: A marriage without love is an immoral marriage, and a marriage with only love is an unrealistic marriage.

Life is actually very realistic, most people can not marry love, but no love, can marry, just have love will be better, it in the most realistic life, can make each other to restrain, endure the problem of human nature to a great extent.

But in reality, there are also many because of love together, but also inevitably encounter a variety of unpleasant things: domestic violence, debt, cheating and framed people shocking, jaw-dropping cases.

When the halo of love disappears, when the passion fades, when the freshness is exhausted, when the naked, when the wine, coffee, rose diamond ring, is replaced by fuel, rice, oil and salt children, the other half of the deep-rooted and nowhere to avoid the shortcomings, is everyone to face the reality of the world.

Therefore, love or no love, marriage ultimately faces what Bi Shumin calls "the destruction of familiar life and the establishment of a new model, which includes the recombination of wisdom, courage, personality and will."

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A marriage without love can come to the end, in the final analysis depends on whether you can firm their choice.

In the Legend of the Condor Heroes, Bao Xiruo lives his whole life in confusion and complaint. He chooses Wanyan Honglie, but he always looks back at his past with Yang Tiexin.

Later when I met Yang Tiexin again, I felt that it was unfair to Yang Kang. She regretted in the tangle, and continued to choose another remorse in the remorse, and did not let go of herself for a day.

Therefore, if you want to make your marriage go to the end, you should make a good choice before you get married. You should either not settle before waiting for the person you love, or you should not be obsessed with love and live a good life as long as you get married.

There are always contradictions in the feelings, happy people are willing to moth the flame, will only try to do the job.

On the one hand they think they have to marry love, on the other hand, they are easy to compromise. It's also easy to regret a compromise. Finally in marriage, the heart is unwilling to.

This kind of marriage is the most difficult to go to the end, so I hope everyone understands that it is not love that decides whether the marriage can go to the end, but your choice.

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~This is Antoine, and I hope you find pleasure in each of my articles~