With whom to marry, please remember these words of advice

　　Marriage is the fellowship of 3 families, if the parents oppose, communication is fruitless, the marriage should not be closed, which is the source of all kinds of unresolved deadlock. Don't fall out with the family, the world, from the heart to love you, the parents must be the first.

　　When you fall in love, you can make, but please pay attention to your face, ability, but I hope your temper is right for your strength. No one can not leave anyone, life is not just one. You say the fish can not leave the water, in fact, the fish left the water, charcoal grilled or steamed, are the fate of the way back, can not say which is happier.

　　Even if you get married, you should not easily give up your friends of the opposite sex. The least of Korean dramas is misunderstanding, life is also, don't guess blindly.

　　You ask, is there pure friendship between men and women? I'm not sure about this, but I think we should have a minimum bottom line when we interact with anyone. The bottom line of a relationship is to be able to distinguish between a boyfriend and a male friend, which is the minimum respect for your life.

　　The economic base is the entry standard for marital happiness. Marriage is not robbing the rich to help the poor, love can be evenly matched, but marriage law only protects property does not protect love, the saying read 3 times: no filial son at the bedside of a long illness, no good wife at home for a long time poor. You see, this society is very realistic, the money to go around the world, no money inch difficult to walk.

　　Do not easily quit your job and become a full-time housewife. Do not go to their own unsure of life, you see, credit cards do work well, the mood is high when you brush up, take tomorrow's money to buy today's happy. However, you need to be clear that the day after tomorrow there is a price behind every get.

　　Don't go climbing marriage, there is no contrast no harm. There are four seasons in a year, there are more than 360 days, cloudy, sunny and stormy. Marriage is long, exhaustion, irritation, disappointment will be there, see the truth, please still love life.

　　Don't give up on romance, remember every special anniversary belonging to you, even a simple greeting, happy birthday, happy wedding anniversary, are doubly gratifying.

　　The girl is the kind of a packet of fried chestnuts will be happy for days, recalled with a smile, the boy is the kind of you kiss him, he will dare to fight with the difficulties of life. Rewarding each other is one of the fastest ways to heat up love.

　　All family conflicts, if there is no good solution, prefer to shut up and not talk, rather than open your mouth is to complain.

　　There is no indestructible marriage in this world, complaining is the forward airplane cannon open road, the junior is closely followed by a small rice plus rifle breakout, you ask, why people cheat? The home meal is not good, but also brush pots and pans and wash dishes, of course, will go down to the restaurant, down to the restaurant and the same affair, are eating after patting the butt away. In retrospect, he left you, but you were complaining about pushing him.

　　Don't expect a man to become how good you are after marriage, if you can't do it before marriage, after marriage is basically hopeless. The old saying is quite good: prefer to find a father, never a mother. Marriage is really about bonding, but the premise is that people who fit together are grinding, three different views, personality, how to grind?

　　The first thing you need to do is to go to his house for a meal before you get married, and his father's attitude toward the fuck will largely map your future life, the family of origin will have a great impact on a person's view of marriage, and the aura of happiness is the same. This is just a reference.

　　There are always people who will take the "he loves you or not on these points" case love model to guide you, just like when you graduate, "the school's career guidance office to guide your employment" as unreliable. The reason is that we can't use a few points to summarize all of a person's love.

　　Everyone has an insurmountable bottom line, everyone's patience is limited, everyone has a temper. So don't tear each other down in public, love can be shown outside, but there are emotions home quarrel.

　　After the marriage, meet the more suitable and more compatible love of life, how to do? People, if you intend to do a bad thing, he can come up with a hundred kinds of justifiable reasons, but also self-referential, I do the right thing, you must fulfill me.

　　The cheating is cheating, betrayal is betrayal, do not take the true love to say things, true love said: this black pot I do not carry! I do not carry!

　　Why would you meet the more suitable love of this life after marriage this illusion? You live with a person is 24 hours live, you and another person is the editing of a beautiful variety show, which one do you think looks good? So, after marriage, you say, meeting the love of your life is not unusual at all, you just enjoy the beauty of that one person, do not believe, try to get married. Just like when you travel, you have been to some cities, you think that place is so beautiful, you especially yearn for it, you move to that city to live for a while to try.

　　It's normal to fight, but it's sad to fight over the same issue endlessly. It's more fun for two people to solve problems together than to create them. Marriage is a journey of seeking common ground and growing together. The fast ones have to wait for the slow ones, the slow ones have to work hard, and if you don't work hard, others can't reach your hand if they want to pull you.

　　Darwin's law of evolution is the survival of the fittest, and so is marriage, no marriage is a once and for all.

　　In fact, so many people don't care about weddings, but until they get married and suddenly one day attend a friend's wedding. So, if girls don't want to regret, if boys don't want to be complained about, the wedding must be there, and luxury has nothing to do with it, it is a fun memory belonging to two people. The wedding sentence "I do" is very common, but must be said to you.

　　You think a person crossed several streets early in the morning to buy you soy milk doughnuts, very touching. In fact, you do not have a better choice. If you had, you would have chosen cranberry cookies, creamy toast with fried egg, skinny egg congee.

　　The heart is touched and moved is two different things, you said, he is so good to me, I want to marry him? But you forgot to ask yourself first: do I love him or not? Getting someone touched and surprised can be done with events, while getting someone to fall in love with you takes time to do.

　　Communication can solve more than 90% of the problems in a marriage, then the remaining 10% are their own secrets, beaten to death, so it is important to put away curiosity.

　　Some troublesome things, he is willing to talk to you, you listen, he is not willing to say, naturally have his reasoning. When people are pushed, they lie, even they are afraid. Respect is much cuter than getting each other's privacy under the banner of "I'm doing it for your own good".

　　Don't be forced to rush into a marriage because of anxiety forced by time, parents, friends circle are married, etc. You are not young, can make decisions for themselves, the more a person, the more you learn to treat yourself, the more anxious the more likely to make mistakes. Hunger does not choose the top of the stomach, but hunger does not choose people, do not know the consequences.