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The bride price has become a necessity for marriage nowadays, and the bride price dowry is also slowly becoming tasteless. Many people feel that the more the bride price, the richer the dowry, the more decent their sons or daughters will be for this wedding, and they will be able to hold up their heads in the future.

Some people feel that a bride price is just a number, there is no important, meaning to give a little can. It doesn't matter.

After all, whether the marriage of two people is happy is the most important, the bride price, even more, the future marriage of two people is not smooth, not happy, also does not help.

But some people feel that the bride price is very important, the bride price even represents the male party to the female party to a heart, degree of importance.

The bride price is less on behalf of the man's family and does not pay attention to the marriage, the bride price is more on behalf of the man is very important. And the man's family also attaches great importance.

However, the bride price or not, how much is good to discuss, not that it must be given, not that it must be given so much.

If the man's family conditions are very good, you open your mouth to 100,000, 200,000, people can immediately take a hand, your dowry you can also prepare a very dignified.

But if the other side of the family in general, also open your mouth to hundreds of thousands of bride price, then do you want your future in-laws to smash the pots and pans to get the bride price to marry you into the door?

Today there are 2 examples to compare what is the difference between a bride price of 200,000 and a marriage without a bride price.

Xiaoying and Huang Xiao in love for 5 years, and the relationship have been very good, in fact, Huang Xiao early wants to marry Xiaoying, but Xiaoying thinks they are still young and does not want to marry too early.

So in the fifth year, Huang Xiao proposed to Xiaoying, at the right age with the right person, is a matter of water

Huang Xiao's family conditions are medium, Mom and Dad are ordinary working class, and the two have long been ready to Huang Xiao's house down payment, of about 650,000.

Huang Xiao usually is not the kind of very flamboyant boy, but also does not have much money, the only hobby is to like to buy sneakers, other than not spending much money. Work for several years, they have saved 100,000 savings.

When he thought he would be able to marry his beloved girl, Xiaoying's parents said that the bride price must be 200,000, otherwise, the other party is not sincere, and their daughter could not be happy when she married.

Xiaoying's parents feel that the bride price in their eyes is a measure of their daughter's future happiness or unhappiness.

Xiao Ying is torn between her fiancé and her parents, and she knows that Huang Xiao's family's condition, the bride price, and the wedding house are already very good, and she does not ask for more.

But her parents have a point, which woman does not want to be valued by her future in-laws, which woman does not want to be happy in the future? She finally chose to be on her parents' side.

So Huang Xiao's parents absorbed 100,000 from the down payment money and put it together in the bride price. The wedding house area was of course reduced accordingly, and the in-laws were uncomfortable with their family's pre-wedding bride price and did not treat Xiaoying well.

Another girl's story is just the opposite. Zhu Zhu and Liu Yang met on a blind date, and the two hit it off, talking about more than 1 year to get married.

Liu Yang's family is a little worse than Huang Xiao's family, which Liu Yang told Zhu Zhu at the beginning, but Zhu Zhu said she did not care very much, after all, her family is not what is rich and powerful.

Liu Yang said that if he got married, the bride price would be at most 100,000, or his savings, and Zhu Zhu went back and told his parents about it.

Zhu Zu's parents said that marrying someone is not to see if the other family has money, but to see if the other family is harmonious, good or bad, if Liu Yang's family is very good contact, you do not care about these things.

So Zhu Zhu told Liu Yang: "I went home and my parents discussed, the bride price money can not be used to buy a house, and if your family bought a house our family is responsible for the decoration, but the only condition is that the wedding house has to have my name. I have to leave myself a way back."

Liu Yang was surprised to hear that this is completely to help him ah, not at all difficult for him, but also the woman is responsible for the decoration.

He was very grateful to Zhu Zhu and her parents. He vowed in his heart to be good to Zhu Zhu and Zhu Zhu's parents.

The bride's price money was moved to buy a house, the house is larger than before by more than ten square feet, and the decoration is also the style they both like.

The two of them bought a walker with some money left over, not a luxury car, but it's good to get around.

Liu Yang is also making good on his promise, no matter when, as long as his parents-in-law need him first, many people who do not know him think he is the son of his parents-in-law.

To ZhuZhu is not to say, what household chores are themselves down, and occasionally also ZhuZhu prepared a surprise.

Small more narrative.

What is the difference between married life with a bride price and without a bride price? You should be able to see it through these 2 real examples.

The two examples are the 200,000 yuan bride price, but her marriage did not go as planned.

Zhu Zhu didn't ask for the bride price, but her married life was nourishing and happy.

So, the bride price does not represent whether your married life is happy or not, the money spent where it should be spent is what is awesome.