Why I Stopped Believing “It’s Normal” When My Baby Cried

Natural Colic Relief: Safe Oils for Babies - From One Mom Who Learned the Hard Way

When I became a mom for the first time, I was clueless.

I didn’t know why my baby was crying.

I didn’t know what was wrong.

And honestly, I didn’t even know what I didn’t know.

So I did what any new mom would do — I asked for advice. And guess what everyone said?

“It’s normal if babies cry.”

But here’s the thing… my gut told me something else. I knew my baby was uncomfortable. I could see it in the way they scrunched their little legs, the way their tiny fists clenched, the way their cries sounded like they were pleading for help.

So I decided I wasn’t going to just “wait it out.”

I started learning — step by step — about how to raise my kids in a more peaceful, gentle way. Along the way, I discovered the quiet strength of nature’s healing — both inside and out.

That path led me to traditional remedies that have been around for thousands of years… and eventually, to essential oils

Not the Instagram-perfect, “diffuse peppermint in every corner” kind of essential oils, but the safe, careful, respect-the-plant-power kind.

And now, I’m here to share them with you.

Because one of the very first problems you’ll probably face with your little one? Colic!

And if you’ve been there, you know it’s more than “just crying.”

So… do you know how to overcome it?

Let’s dive in.

The Truth About Colic (And Why “It’s Normal” Isn’t Always the Full Story)

Colic isn’t just an inconvenience — it’s exhausting for baby and for you.

Sure, some crying is normal. But constant, inconsolable crying paired with tummy discomfort? That’s your cue that something deeper might be going on.

One of the gentlest ways I’ve found to ease colic discomfort is with safe essential oils — when used correctly.

Mom Rules for Essential Oil Safety

Before I spill my favorites, here’s my non-negotiable safety list:

• Dilute, dilute, dilute — For newborns, that means 1 drop essential oil in 1 tablespoon carrier oil.
• Avoid hot oils like peppermint, eucalyptus, and cinnamon. Not for baby tummies.
• Double-check with your pediatrician if you’re unsure, especially for babies under 3 months.

My Gentle Trio for Colic Relief

When my baby’s belly felt like it had a thunderstorm brewing inside, these were my go-to:

1. Lavender: Known for its calming and soothing properties, lavender oil can help relax your baby and ease discomfort.
2. Roman Chamomile: Traditionally used to calm digestive upset and promote restful sleep.
3. Sweet Orange: Uplifting and gentle, it may help soothe mood and digestive discomfort.

How I Use Them (Real-Life Mom Version)

Here’s my middle-of-the-night, eyes-half-closed routine:

1. Dilute — 1 drop essential oil + 1 tablespoon carrier oil (like coconut or jojoba).
2. Warm hands first — because cold hands on a baby tummy? Rude.
3. Massage gently in clockwise circles, or use the “I Love You” massage technique.

Sometimes, I’ll diffuse a single drop of lavender in the corner of the room while feeding. Even if it didn’t magically fix colic in two seconds, it made the whole vibe calmer — for both of us.

Final Mom-to-Mom Note

Colic won’t last forever. One day, you’ll realize your baby just slept three hours straight, and you’ll tear up over your cold coffee because you finally got a stretch of peace.

Until then, trust your gut, lean on nature’s gentle helpers, and don’t let “it’s normal” stop you from finding what works for your baby.

💬 Moms — did anyone tell you “it’s normal” when your gut told you otherwise? Drop your colic survival stories (and favorite midnight snacks) below.