What period of time do parents' role models have the most profound impact on their children?
The meaning of home education looks at this point

Family education is as important as school education, when do family members have the most influence on children?
In addition to schooling knowledge, children's knowledge learning is more important than family education, the so-called three years old to see the old is not just saying.
Children grow up watching the kind of people they will become in the future. Family education can be said to start from the day the mother is pregnant, whether intentionally or unintentionally, parents are constantly instilling in their children their ideas of how to behave and how to deal with things, how to respond, etc.
Even during pregnancy, the mother's emotions play a role in the physical and mental development of the baby in her womb.
When the child is born, they will see how the parents and the people around them treat him, and how the family members get along with each other.
Family education in general consists of two aspects, one is the direct influence of the parents on the child or the purposeful and planned educational teaching of the child by other people.
The other is the subtle influence of the family environment on the child, such as the family members getting along with each other, relatives' children, or parents, constituting an overall family atmosphere.
The so-called family education is not only parental education but also the child's behavior and judgment after being influenced by the surrounding environment during growth is also part of the family education.

The family plays a very important part in shaping the child and plays a much larger role than we think.
There are no children who can't be taught, only parents who can't teach. A child is like a book, most of the contents of which are written by the parents at the beginning.
The influence of parents on their children is lifelong and will be far-reaching, each parent in the process of raising their children will more or less some changes, and there may even be because of the education of children and enhance the self.
Especially in the process of education, whether intentional or not, there are small psychological techniques that are used to teach children subtly.
Parenting is a difficult and complex profession that lasts a long time, and each parent is doing his or her best to provide the best environment for the child.
Parents also have the most profound influence on their children, as they grow up watching their parents' backs, and their company becomes one of their best memories.
In a sense, every child will become an excellent person in a field in the future, depending on how the parents influence them from a young age and how to guide them.
The ability to bring out their great potential is one of the responsibilities of parenting, and home education is a study that always needs to be explored and studied, including all aspects of a child's education.
Parents who want to educate their children should learn to study their psychology, and if they can understand their children, know themselves, implement educational methods promptly, and make a good example, they will be able to get a good educational result.
When do parents' role models have the greatest influence on their children? From a psychological point of view, children in the Oedipus complex between the ages of 3 and 5 have the most profound impact on their children through their parent's example.
Children in this period will actively imitate the behavior of same-sex parents and then try to gain the favor of opposite-sex parents, so the influence of parenting is most profound for children between the ages of 3 and 5.
If parents obey the lights when crossing the street at this time, children will wait for the lights when crossing the street themselves in the future. When parents throw their trash in the trash, children will implicitly imprint this behavior in their hearts.
Whether the parent's behavior is good or bad, the child will see it and remember it, so parents must pay special attention to their words and actions during this period, and may even deliberately show their children good traits.
You can focus on what qualities you most want to cultivate in your child to highlight, for example, parents want their children to be filial people in the future, so they should usually treat the elderly with respect and tolerance so that the child will be able to learn how to treat their elders, and how to treat their parents in the future.
Or parents want their children to become a person who loves to read, even if they did not like to read before, it is best to read more books in front of the child during this period, to do the same so that the child realizes that mom and dad like to read, books must be interesting, they will gradually become interested in reading
It is not that 3-5 years old have the most profound influence, other times parents can not care about their role model role parents at any age of children will have a more or less profound influence on them, if you want to make children excellent, parents also have to be conscious of the changes.
Family education, especially parenting education, is important for everyone. Parents and children have a positive impact through mutual understanding and consensus based on equal emotional communication.
Parents are the initial contact with their children and their lifelong teachers. Although parents do not have the means to give their children a high level of intellectual education, they are the guides of their behavior in life.
The parent-child relationship is established from the moment of birth. Parents should not think that children are too young to understand anything, and it is not too late to educate them when they are in school and can communicate properly.
But the fact is that although children cannot think logically in time before the age of three and seem to be unable to remember anything, they are already developing emotionally at a rapid pace and certain emotions, certain fragments are already stored in the brain.
When growing up and touching some scenario or event, those initial memories in the emotional brain will resurface and become a subconscious response, which is very difficult to change.
Most people's subconscious emotional reactions are some of the emotional reserves before the age of three, although there will be cognitive adjustments later in life, basically will not change too much, which is the so-called "understand the reason, but just can not do" the reason.
The family is the child's initial and lifelong classroom, the child's problems are largely caused by parents, children and parents are mutual achievements, and mutual influence, so parents should not see the importance of their education to their children.
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Sal Tori
Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything one has learned in school.




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