What is marriage?

What is marriage? Some people think marriage is the relationship of family, some people think marriage is partners to live and I think marriage is to find a person you are willing to love, and then in the care of oil rice firewood salt to fulfill, find that more mature, more beautiful yourself.

If marriage makes both of us better, both mature and lovable, that is the real life that is uniquely human to us,

Recently there are a lot of people asked me what I said, hi, glutinous rice teacher, my marriage is always noisy, a little things are at odds, always want to win an argument, is life not bottom go to, then the contradiction between the two is more and more big, actually keep the way of marriage, you must first solve the relationship not harmonious ability, learn to reflect in the conflict of two people, Confront problems and solve them, not run away from them.

In 2020, one of the nine best film Oscar nominees, the other eight are concerned with society and history, he turns off small love, top TV is giving them high marks.

Recently, about 520 lovers festival, people around me are not in the holiday, but in making fun of it, to make fun of the movie, a lot of people don't believe love, reason is hidden in the film, the heroine actress, nicole and Charlie married for 10 years, 8 years old girl, nicole will divorce with him, two people first fall in love at first sight, in a stage, Charlie has been staring at her and then getting the chance to talk to nicole, enthusiasm, the two men hit it off, no words don't talk, talented men make confused woman full of passion, love speed, marry and have children, when eight years later, when the divorce, divorce said the reason for the small small, she wanted him to back out of her phone number, he don't know. But also big, big, Charlie too self, he is a theatre director, married for so many years, has been let his wife to his acting, this also calculate, he is a talented, but the point is, he doesn't like nicole yourself to play, he also wants niko to earn my money into his theatre, nicole just he appeared to be a accessory, the value of her life, she, belong to him, And then they fell apart,

Charlie could not see her, understand her and understand her. Charlie did not regard Nicole as something independent of her. From then on, Nicole was gradually disappointed with Charlie and no longer loved Charlie, and even hated and hated Charlie.

The marriage stories played very cruel, but reflects the reality so people of marriage are like that, love of two people feeling very good, in spite of all efforts and appreciation, and the last is because in the life all don't understand and inclusive, wranglings, can't see each other advantages do wrong one thing or the other, so the pay is a waste, both sides would strangle each other, I just want them to disappear,

Therefore, marriage is not about two people getting married and going through the procedures, but about tolerating each other's shortcomings, learning to understand each other, not avoiding problems, positive communication to solve their problems, and then two people reach a common agreement in thought. That's how you control your marriage and make it last