TOXIC VOWS #1: THE INTRODUCTION

Toxic-something poisonous, or very harmful. A poison that will cause you to become very ill is an example of something that would be describe as a toxic;

Vow-a solemn promise, pledge, or personal committment...

Imagine these two definitions is a person that you know or may have been with. The question is, what makes a person so toxic in their lives. Like how did they grow up and become a product of their own environment? Or did they experience a traumatic experience that made them become some mean and disregard towards human life?!?! If they experience these events, why are they still holding on these events that cripples their lively hoods? Being with someone toxic can leave you emotionally and mentally exhausted. They do everything they can to intimidate you just so they can get their way. They will use mind control over you to get their way by any means. What makes it worst about their mind games is they will make you feel guilty on certain levels, leaving you feeling small. Another thing that comes to mind, why are they so damn jealous?!?!? (I.E.) You are one of those outgoing people that love to get a party started like Jimmy Fallon, but you "significant other" is so envious of your positive aspects on life. Sad isn't it?!?! Their toxic ways is so bad that your family and/or peers do not want to be around them. Ever been with a person that plays the "victim" of everything?!?!?! Like it is always the others fault that they are the way they are. You try to joke with them, they get EASLIY offended. Hell, how about if you them about themselves, they will get defensive, REAL QUICK. How to deal with these people is such a question mark. To give you an idea on what I am talking about, this story takes place between two high school sweethearts that once fell in love, broke up and lost contact, and found each other again. Their names is Marcell and Nikki Kola from Bronx, New York. They been married for 7 years, but within them years, Marcell never knew how damaged goods Nikki is.

Toxic Vows #2: Where's my money?!?!?!?

One early morning, Marcell and Nikki gets ups and get their kids ready for school. His oldest two Step-sons are already up and ready to leave to catch the bus. Their daughter was the only one that stayed home because of teachers meeting was going on. Nikki and Marcell was getting their day started and Nikki wanted to go and get her hair done. Marcell knew something was wrong because the only income that was coming in was his, or should be said, the "majority" of it. Her income was survival benefits for her son through this father, who passed away a few years back. After they finished getting dressed, he checks his pocket for the money his mother sent him to help pay the bills in their household. Marcell was sent $300, and notice that $140 of it was missing. Immediately, he was suspect of her. So Marcell asked her over and over again, where's my money, and of course she played stupid acting like she did not know where it is. He told her what the money was for, but she never complied. Marcell furiously said, "I ain't going nowhere until my money is back in my hand." He was pissed, but tried his hardest not to lose cool of his high temper. After a half hour into the madness, she finally went back upstairs and gave him back his money. Nikki did that because she thought he was just pocketing the money for himself, but did not know it was for the household. The reason Marcell did not tell her because he knew Nikki is all about money and want it for herself, rather than for the both of them to work as a team. Marcell did not speak to her for a few days, and she had this attitude, like what did I do?!?!?! From that point on, Marcell never trusted her again when it comes to finances. So if he has to do any transactions, he will charge it to his debit card. In present times, he still keeps that incident in the back of his head and does not leave any money around. Would you?!?!?!?