There is time to be a filial son or daughter

　　The family is like a big tree, the elderly are the roots, the children are the branches and fruits, and only when the roots are deep can the leaves flourish. Therefore, the root of nourishment is to love, respect, and honor the elderly. A benevolent person loves people, and later people always love them. Filial piety is the root of the five thousand years of Chinese culture and the virtue of the five thousand years of Chinese tradition.

　　In modern life, many things are not because you are too busy to do them, but because you do not consider them as the most important thing to you. If you make it the most important thing to you, you will have time to do it even if you are busy. How is this not the case with filial piety? Some people always put off filial piety on the excuse that they are too busy, but they don't consider it the most important thing in life. By the time they want to be filial to their parents, they have already left them. Filial piety does not mean that we have to be by their side every day, sometimes we just need to take a little time to greet them, care for them and warm them up.

　　When you have time, you can always give your parents a phone call and a greeting, which is enough to warm their hearts. If our parents are in good health, we can call them once every two or three days or once a week. If our parents are not in good health, it is better to make a phone call every day. Nowadays, communication is so convenient that it is easy to make phone calls and it does not take much time. When people get old, any kind of accident can happen. When we were young, our parents were our guardians and took good care of us. Now that they are old, we should do our best to be their guardians.

　　When you have time, accompany your parents to go shopping or take a short trip. On holidays, we sleep less for a few days, drink less wine with friends, play less mahjong, surf less for a few days, and quietly spend time with our parents. If your parents are physically able, we can accompany them on a short trip, or go shopping with them to relax. Think about it, when we were kids, our parents took us to the park, and shopping malls, and spent one happy vacation after another. Now that our parents are old, as children with families, we ask ourselves, how many holidays have we spent with them? How many times have we gone shopping?

　　There is time to buy a new dress for parents from time to time. When we were young, they bought us clothes, and now that we are grown up and have the ability, it is only right to pay them back. To buy clothes for parents, the most important thing is not how expensive the price is, the fit is fine. If you buy clothes that fit them, they will feel that you are considerate of them; if you buy clothes that not only fit, and the style is popular, they will be happier, because who does not want to keep the youth? Whenever they wear the new clothes you bought for them, they will always show off to people that it is bought by their children, and they will be excited beyond words.

　　When you have time, greet your parents on every holiday. There are many festivals in a year, and it is not necessary to spend every holiday with your parents. Important holidays such as; Mid-Autumn Festival, Spring Festival or parents' birthdays, wedding anniversaries, etc., go back to spend time with them as much as possible. Other holidays can make a phone call and give them a greeting, which will be just as comforting to them. Especially on your birthday, it is best to give your parents a call and say to them: thank you for giving me life and raising me to adulthood.

　　When you have time, have zero-distance communication with your parents. Sit down and chat with your parents, talk about your work and life, talk about your children's learning and progress, talk about what's new outside, listen to your parents' nagging, and take a photo with them so that they can take a good look at themselves, and take a good look at their parents themselves. Help your parents soak their feet and wash their hair once, hug them and say to them personally: Dad! Mom! I love you!

　　The love of parents for their children is the most selfless, pure, and deepest love in the world. We should thank our parents for giving us life, allowing us to walk in the world, experiencing the sorrows and joys of life, tasting the sweetness and bitterness of life, and enjoying the happiness and joy of life. We should thank our parents for raising us, for taking good care of us, for their selfless devotion to us, and for their kindness in raising us.