The best relationship is that I understand you are not easy

Fan Zhongyan, a poet in the Northern Song Dynasty, angered the court by advocating reform and was banished to Yingzhou. When Fan Zhongyan prepared to leave the capital, his usual friends stayed away for fear of being implicated.

Only Wang quality does not care, he ignored the dissuasion of Fan Zhongyan, swagger will Fan Zhongyan sent to the city, do not care about other people's eyes.

Wang Zhi appreciates Fan Zhongyan's good, so can do regardless of personal gains and losses, sincere to friends.

Fan Zhongyan understands the bitterness of Wang quality, so he can put himself in the shoes of Wang quality, for fear of trouble to Wang quality.

People live a lifetime, meet too many people, but finally really know only a few people.

The people of wine and meat, daily talk and laugh, call each other, when things fall tree monkey scatter, only others cold eyes, lament a moral bureaus.

And the best relationship, often because of appreciation of each other's good, understand each other's pain, stronger with time.

Life can meet a truly understand their own people is enough, this kind of friendship is more pure than love, more noble than friendship, his existence is a kind of peace of mind.

The best relationship is that I understand you are not easy.

Lao Tzu said that he who knows people is wise. People who know when others are in trouble and offer a helping hand have great wisdom.

With gold, gold consumption is forgotten; To benefit the intersection, the benefit is scattered; With potential intersection, potential to tilt; With the right to intersect, the right is abandoned; With love, love died people hurt; Spiritual intersection, static line Zhiyuan.

Only two people who understand each other, friendship can last.

When someone misunderstands you, he will believe you unconditionally. When others look down on you, he will actively encourage you; When you are in trouble, he is always there to help you.

No matter what you do right or wrong, no matter how others comment, whether you are beautiful or ugly, will not affect the friendship between you, because know, so determined!

People get along with each other, the most easy problem, is used to love others in their own way.

Think everything for each other to do the best, but the other person is completely indifferent or even disgusted, the root of this problem is just do not understand, rather than love.

A fisherman couple, two people love each other, never red face, never quarreled.

The wife is very virtuous. Every day she selects the largest and most complete fish from the fish her husband brings home, cuts off the head and tail, and cooks the middle part with special care, braising it today and steaming it tomorrow...

Serve it to her husband on a large plate, while she simply cooks the leftover fish head and tail in the kitchen and eats it.

In this way, decades passed. Then one evening, with a deep sigh, the husband said to his wife:

"I've never asked you anything in my life, and if I don't ask you anything now, I may lose my chance. When are you going to cook me a fish head? Fish heads are my favorite food in my life."

Hearing this, the wife burst into tears.

"Ever since I was a girl, I thought fish was the best in the world. To love you, I gave you the fish, and I ate the head myself."

The biggest mistake in the world is not love, but in their own way to love.

The biggest lack in the world, more luxury than love, is "understand".

However, in our long life, we will meet a few people who understand themselves. Even if we meet, there will be a few people who really want to understand themselves.

Such a person, if met, only one is enough.

The real understanding is not invited, not traction, not forced, but the real natural understanding.

This understanding has nothing to do with the wind and moon, nothing to do with utility, even nothing to do with wind and rain and nothing to do with sunny days.

Yes, so choose to love you in a way that is easy for you to accept.

Therefore, we can handle personnel affairs in a more intelligent way and protect the people closest to us in the most appropriate way.

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~This is Antoine, and I hope you find pleasure in each of my articles~