Pregnant mothers can use their fathers-to-be as the object of their reliance and confidence

Yesterday, a pregnant mother in the group sent me a private message, saying that since she was pregnant, she was always in a sad mood and that she was a different person from the optimistic, open-minded, and unconcerned self of the past.

Just like seeing the flowers thanked, the birds flew, the ducklings bought died, the mother cat took the kittens out ...... and so on, I can't help but feel emotional or sad; from time to time, I will bow two tears, as if I was possessed by Lin Meir.

However, as a pregnant woman herself, and very worried, worried about their emotions will not lead to depression, more worried about their mood will not affect the health of the fetal baby.

Suddenly, I remembered that some time ago, during the broadcast of "Dear Child", the wind reviews are mixed, some say too real, and some say it was the sale of anxiety, I also followed the trend to watch a few episodes.

The story begins with a pregnant woman, Fang Yin, looking in the mirror and wiping away her concealer, clearly seeing the facial discoloration that comes with having a baby.

From the way the story then unfolds her birth process, it is clear that she was originally a very optimistic, open-minded, and strong woman, such as joking with her mother before the birth that she had no problem and had enough energy to give birth to the baby.

Then there is a series of family ethics, chicken and egg around the emotions between the young couple, the contradictions of parenting, and the families of origin of both sides.

However, art always comes from life and above life, right?

The hormonal changes during pregnancy will make pregnant mothers change physically and psychologically

Most pregnant mothers experience different symptoms of depression, fatigue, insomnia, and anxiety during pregnancy, such as feeling sad and uninterested in everything, feeling uncomfortable all over the body, being very depressed, and easily thinking about things, etc. This is closely related to hormonal changes during pregnancy.

In addition, hormonal changes will also affect the pregnant mother's body in many ways. For example, loss of appetite, bloated body, mobility problems, loss of skin elasticity, dull skin tone, etc., and even stretch marks may appear.

Women's unique delicacy will make pregnant mothers enter the role in advance, and they will inevitably think and worry a lot.

This is the time when the mother-to-be will have mixed feelings. The mother-to-be is a strong mother; however, when she looks at her once beautiful self, how can she not be worried and anxious?

Moreover, when the little life has just taken root in the mother's womb as a small seed, women have already started to take up the responsibility and transformation of motherhood involuntarily; in contrast, the responsibility and transformation of men as fathers often starts when the baby starts to say "Daddy" in a brittle and sweet way.

Therefore, the mother-to-be is inevitably burdened with too much worry and worry about the unknown, and it is inevitable that there will be mood swings.

The best state for pregnant mothers is to vent their grievances and tell them when they have concerns.

The mood of pregnant mothers varies throughout pregnancy.

In the early stage of pregnancy, although ignorant, but full of longing for the baby; in the middle stage of pregnancy, the state is relatively stable, and the mood will also be more stable.

In late pregnancy, various discomforts come one after another, the freshness of pregnancy is gone, but the fear of facing the birth comes, the bloating and swelling of the body, the discomfort of not being able to breathe, not being able to bend down, not being able to turn around, and so on, will make pregnant mothers collapse at any time and anywhere, so this is also the high incidence of depression at this time.

Therefore, pregnant mothers should learn to release their emotions, confess their grievances, adjust their discomfort in time, acquire some knowledge about pregnancy and childbirth, have a basic judgment of the problems they may face, choose a trusted and regular doctor, learn to appreciate their present rounded self and long for the joy of seeing their baby after delivery, etc., all of which will help them get through the pregnancy period healthily.

Know how to trust and understand your significant other and not take the bull by the horns

Some people say that during pregnancy, the performance of the father-to-be is very important, to understand, be considerate, care for and pamper his wife, to be a good man.

No matter how warm, attentive, and considerate the father-to-be behaves during pregnancy, the mother-to-be may still express anger towards her husband or show uneasiness about the future of the family because of some details.

This is because of the inevitable differences created by gender, we have to admit that men can never really appreciate how uncomfortable the various discomforts of pregnancy are: they may have tried the birth pains created by the equipment, but can not empathize with the tens of pounds of weight on the belly for months; they may see their wives swollen legs and feet, panting, but can not empathize with the months can not bend down, can not breathe They may see their wife's legs and feet swollen and panting, but they can't empathize with the torment of not being able to bend over, not being able to breathe, and not sleeping well for months ...... and they may even mistake pregnancy for unreasonable behavior.

Another reason is also very real, if it is a married couple, you are the first time to be a mother, and he is not the first time as a father. The husband, who also has no experience, will feel uneasy and overwhelmed by his wife's increasing changes during pregnancy, and even the father-to-be will be emotionally unstable, nervous, depressed, etc.

Therefore, as a pregnant mother, it is true that the father-to-be should be the object of her reliance, confidence, and trust, but not completely dependent on him, not to mention not to take the bull by the horns, to find some like-minded friends or sisters who are also in pregnancy to talk together also help their relaxation and mental pleasure.

As for the father-to-be, don't find excuses and reasons for yourself, in this special period of your wife's pregnancy, behaving well is the only best policy!