Parenting styles

parents are those saddled with the responsibility of taking care of a child to become a better member of the society.

Parenting does not necessarily mean you have to be perfect or give your whole life dedicated to taking care of children, but trying your best to make sure the child is being taking care of physically( shelter and feeding), psychologically( growing up to be humans with the socially and morally accepted members of the society and not getting fixated or traumatized with different abuses or hurt) and socially( relating to other member of the society with respect and love).

As a parent loving all your children unconditionally is a MUST, it is always proven that parents who have more than a child always love one compared to the others, but as parents you should try to fill that gap so that the other children will not feel left out which could be a traumatizing experience for them and might resent you on a long run.

Children are born out of love that is why we call the procreation method “love making” and that love process does not only end there, the love process is life long that is why when divorce cases happens and children are within such relationship it always makes such divorce cases more difficult and complicated and might traumatize those children and parents.

Parents are the first set of individuals the child bonds with before the society or families and because of this the primary thing they learn is what they will give out to others.

The trust level your child must have in you must be such that will give them comfort, that which will give them affection, security and protection.

Parents should always ensure that their children are their confidants and are free to express themselves to them at all point, the door to your room must always be open for your children to share their thoughts and ideas and be the most informal relationship ever not a formal one.

The style a parent takes up to abide by to nurture their children can either make them a better member of the society or make them a rebellious one, for instance, a parent training a child the way his or her parents brought them up might not really allow the child to express his or her self properly, because the child here does have some part of your biological components but not necessarily have to be trained in the same format because the societal norm and culture when you are born is already altered, the age, the developments are more verse than they are doing your own time, while some parents wil always believe that their word is the law, yes it is, but in most cases the independence of your child is also to be considered and the mode of correction might have make or mar them. Correction with love is always the best as well.

Parental love is very essential and it does not necessarily mean the children we are talking about are those who you have given birth to, it could be the child you fostered or those from adoption or your neighbors children, children are children and once you are an adult you are seen as a parental figure and once you realize that a child is doing things which could harm them, correct them with love make sure they feel secured and safe within your space and they are able to enjoy being a child they are which is being happy and carefree before maturity gets to them.

Parental love is the guide you can give children with love and hope that yes they are worth it, they are wanted, they are loved, they are blessed and will have the hope of doing same you did for them to you when you get aged.