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Men are naturally polygamous

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By Busari Lukman Published 3 years ago 3 min read

Have you ever wondered why some men seem to be attracted to multiple women at once? Or why some men seem to have a hard time settling down with one woman? The answer may surprise you – it’s because men are naturally polygamous.

Polygamy is the practice of having more than one spouse at a time. It’s a practice that has been around for centuries, and is still practiced in many cultures today. While it’s not as common in the Western world, the fact remains that men are naturally drawn to multiple partners.

So why is this the case? Well, the answer lies in evolution. Studies have found that men are hardwired to seek out multiple sexual partners in order to increase their chances of passing on their genes. This is why men are more likely to engage in casual sex than women, and why they are more likely to have multiple partners at once.

Historical Evidence

Throughout history, men have been seen as more sexually promiscuous than women, and this has been reflected in cultural norms. In the ancient world, polygamy was a common practice among the wealthy and powerful. For example, in the ancient Egyptian Empire, kings and pharaohs were allowed to have multiple wives and concubines. This trend was also seen in other ancient societies, such as the Roman Empire, where men could have multiple wives, concubines, and even slaves.

In many cultures, polygamy was seen as a sign of wealth and power, and was even encouraged by religious institutions. For example, in the Old Testament, King Solomon was said to have had 700 wives and 300 concubines. In Islamic cultures, polygamy is still practiced today, with men allowed to have up to four wives.

Biological Evidence

The idea that men are naturally polygamous is often supported by biological evidence. For example, some studies have suggested that men have a higher sex drive than women, which could lead them to seek out multiple partners. Additionally, men have a higher level of testosterone than women, which could also lead them to seek out multiple partners.

Other studies have suggested that men may be more likely to engage in promiscuous behavior due to evolutionary pressures. For example, some studies have suggested that men may be more likely to engage in infidelity in order to spread their genes to a wider population.

Social Evidence

The idea that men are naturally polygamous is also supported by social evidence. In many cultures, men are seen as the more sexually active gender and are often portrayed as promiscuous in popular culture. For example, in movies and television, men are often portrayed as having multiple partners, while women are often portrayed as more monogamous. Additionally, in many cultures, men are seen as the initiators

This isn’t to say that all men are polygamous. In fact, many men choose to remain faithful to their partners, and many cultures frown upon polygamy. But the fact remains that men are naturally drawn to multiple partners, and this is something that can’t be changed.

So what does this mean for relationships? Well, it’s important to remember that men are naturally polygamous, and that this isn’t necessarily a bad thing. In fact, it can be a good thing if it’s handled in the right way.

For example, if a man is in a committed relationship, he can still enjoy the benefits of having multiple partners without actually cheating. This could involve going on dates with other women, flirting with them, or even engaging in casual sex. The key here is to do it in a way that is respectful to both partners.

It’s also important to understand that men are naturally polygamous, and that this doesn’t mean that they don’t love their partners. In fact, many men are just as committed to their partners as women are. It’s just that they have a natural inclination.

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