Making money is hard, not making money is harder

They all said that Sister Li was a "ruthless person".

Hard on yourself, especially when it comes to making money.

When she was newly divorced, she was living with a child under two years old.

Even if the division of assets resulted in a large sum of money and a house, she had a decent job and could live comfortably.

But she chose to study investment and business. At the beginning of the shop, the money was not enough, so she worked during the day and drove to earn money at night.

She puts the baby in the passenger seat, where he sleeps, and she drives for hours in the dark and comes home late at night.

After the store opened, she was even more busy. On my busiest days, I couldn't sleep more than a few hours a day.

Everyone thought it was unnecessary for her to push herself so hard when she had such a young child and enough money.

Her answer: "When people think too far ahead, they always have problems."

It is precisely because children are young and the future is unknowable that you have to work harder for it.

Money lasts no man knows how long it lasts.

Food costs money, food costs money, education costs money, a serious illness is very likely to leave you penniless.

Hard work is a bit tiring, but it gives me confidence to face every day:

If you don't make money, how can you have food and clothing? If you don't make money, how can you have dignity? If you don't make money, how can you get a house or a car?

Every extra point in your account balance adds to your confidence in life.

The more you earn, the less you worry about the future.

It's not so much savings as your ability to cope with future changes.

Every sweat you pay is a real responsibility for your life.

Blowing air conditioning at home, although comfortable, but it can not give you a solid future happiness.

There is a saying:

If you don't make the effort to live the life you want now, there will be plenty of time later to live the life you don't want.

It is tiring to make money now, but it is even more tiring to live without seeing the future.

No rely on people, doomed to rely on their own hands to achieve their own life.

That if lucky to be "Cinderella", married to a rich man, henceforth need not work, can not tired point?

Here's a true story:

I was a student with a very beautiful, college graduation year, I heard that she married a businessman in his city.

I was at the wedding. It was big. The groom looked a year older than her.

Since then, her circle of friends has been filled with exquisite afternoon teas, stacks of premium skin care products and punches from around the world.

Just when everyone thought she was going to go to the top of her life, she disappeared in the circle of friends.

Two years later, I heard that she suffered from depression. Before that, she had a difficult relationship with her mother-in-law and was even abused by her husband.

A businessman all day busy with entertainment, one is a pamper vase, even if there is love at first, but, in the long-term unequal intimate relationship - attachment and be attached, sooner or later, the condescending party, because of the sense of superiority, began to ignore your self-esteem.

For example, in the TV drama "Staying with Mom", the mother played by Wu Junmei finds her husband cheating on her. When they quarrel, the husband yells:

"I paid for the baby, and I paid for you for twenty years!"

See here, countless people began to lambaste male main unfaithful.

But on the other hand, human nature has its dark side.

The premise of marrying into a rich family is that you have the strength to match the rich family.

If Cinderella is not beautiful, talented and proud, she will be abandoned sooner or later.

After all, there is an old Chinese saying: "If you eat a person, your mouth is soft, but your hands are short."

A woman who depends on her husband always finds it difficult to live in peace and quiet.

To this point, Zhang Ailing is very transparent love.

She knows that a woman who only relies on others is like a canary in a cage. Gu Manzhen in Half Life, Ge Weilong in The First Incense Burner, Bai Liusu in Love in a City, and Cao Qiqiao in The Golden Lock are all true.

Recently I heard a news, a female artist retired a few years ago, married the rich, retired from acting to husband and child.

As a result, her husband betrayed her, but she has lost the courage to leave, want to return to the entertainment industry is not easy. Living in a depressed environment for a long time, he died of cancer.

It's nice to live a comfortable life without sweating and making money, but if you are not born with money and choose to work hard, it may be the greatest security for ordinary people.

Like my old friend Ali, who recently returned to work to disrupt her career.

After taking nearly two years off to have a baby, she returned to work to find that everything had changed.

Someone younger and better than you took your place. It's like everything's suddenly back to square one.

She began studying day and night, trying to catch up. After working hard for nearly a year, I was promoted and raised step by step.

In fact, her husband is a multimillion-dollar corporate executive, she can also choose to stay at home.

But, for one thing, she wants to find her value and fulfillment in her work. Secondly, spend your own money without feeling distressed or entangled.

This reminds me of Yang Mi's interview when she was asked if she would discuss buying a house for her parents with her then-lover.

She said quietly:

No, because I can afford it.

Making money is tiring, but compared with not making money, you have no psychological burden.

You have enough confidence to choose the life you want to live, and you don't have to worry about where you will get your livelihood.

You have the confidence to have an equal conversation in your marriage. You have something you want to devote your life to.

You have pride in yourself, and the ability to be a good woman, and that life is so much better than having your food on your table.

So, from the bottom of my heart, I respect everyone who does their best work in life.

In the circle of friends very hard to do wechat business, or in the night market stalls selling snacks.

Office workers who sit in front of a computer until their spine stiffen, and those who run around partying for business.

There is a saying on the Internet:

Women's economic independence is never for others to look, most of the time, we work hard to earn money, but to restore dignity, to have a sense of security, to earn a place in this complex society.

Everyone who works hard is responsible for his own life.

Tired? Tired.

But in comparison, the work of tired, let people tired at ease.

If your partner is rich, work gives you a sense of accomplishment and equal dialogue.

If your family is ordinary, work gives us hope and material things and keeps us out of poverty.

People teach you how to enjoy life, but you never realize that the prerequisite to enjoy life is that you have confidence.

Instead of living like a canary, raise your chest and live like you're proud of yourself.

May your pay, the final harvest all the way like brocade flowers;

May your stubbornness be rewarded with respect.

Wish you all the efforts, the achievement of your life.

And you have to believe, you want, time will give you!