Loneliness life

Can we humans live alone? The answer will come- I can't. Because the Creator Himself did not leave us alone on earth. he created a companion for the first man on earth to overcome loneliness. Not just people, no creation in the universe is alone.

We humans don't want to be alone. Few people want to live alone. Some are forced by circumstances, others voluntarily. Those who want or can or know how to enjoy solitary life or solitued are the ones who cross the unkonown and mysterious ocean of life alone.

When does loneliness come?

We usually don't understand . When I undertsand it is too late. There are times in life when you have to be alone even if you don't want to. Maybe not for life, but for as long as it takes to be alone, maybe months or years or longer. Sometimes lonely foreever.

Loneliness comes when we perceive being alone negatively. This feeling then breaks us from within. Piks and eats. No one but the sufferer can beautifully describe how terrible its agony is. Loneliness is the distressing feeling when one is mentally seeking someone with whom one has a social relationship or bond, whom one hopes, wants to communicate and mingle with but does not get according to the depth of one's desire.

No one knows what change will come in people's life at any stage of life. For example, an accident can suddenly occur in an arranged world. Which may result in the loss of loved ones through separation or death.

Living alone is difficult for both men and women. And the picture of the deprivation of women alone in our social system is quite depressing. Widows or unmarried women are greatly neglected in the family structure. They don't even have the dignity they should have as human beings in third-world countries.

In this situation, when others in the family get busy like themselves, there is no time to take notice of the parent or siblings who are alone for weeks or months.

Even if you want to get married at the age of 40 to 50 or more to overcome this terrible loneliness, our society (third country world) does not take it nicely. But if one feels a lack of companionship with age, he should be encouraged.

Some people criticize if someone wants to find a life partner at this time, but if everyone understands his situation and welcomes this decision, then their new life can be much more beautiful.

But at this age, if you make a mistake in choosing the right partner, you have to pay the price for life, So you have to be careful in choosing a partner. Your financial and social status should also be taken into consideration. When you are old, take the person who wants to be your side from the heart. Because now you are healthy and strong. Be sure to be there in case of future illness or special circumstances.

Dowry is an important factor in marriage and it becomes more important in such marriages. Women know that dowry is only the bride's right. In order not to put pressure on the partner, the amount should be fixed keeping in mind the financial condition of the groom.

It's time to think outside the box. Not only good words on social media but in real life, it is necessary to create the mentality of being next to the elderly lonely person next to him to live well. After all these words, it seems as to why the decision to marry at this age. If someone gets the resources to live life with new interests after marriage, why do others object to it? The key is to overcome loneliness and be a little better.