Living in the Beautiful But Messed Up World

It is a complicated world to live in. Everyone has their own mentality. The fact is that the world is wonderful; each breath you take is a gift, a precious moment you cannot waste worrying about how shi*ty this world is.

If some people happen to be against you, that does not mean the whole society or the world is messed up. If you find a few pages in the storybook ugly, do not consider the entire book as crappy.

What I mean is, the whole world is not an unpleasant place. In fact, we are living in strange times. But this is also the most amazing time in the history of mankind.

Society has become toxic by accepting so many abnormal behaviors in the past few decades. Modern people are often driven by their emotions and lack emotional intelligence.

Social media allows you to share your feelings and say all sorts of horrible things you can to pour out your anger. People cannot tolerate each other, cannot love each other, cannot feel empathetic for the weak, and cannot deal with their shame and guilt.

Some youngsters lack logic and objective thinking. Capitalism has resulted in immense damage to our ethics and thrown our moral values into the gutter.

Life can look fake as people become more materialistic; however, this vicious cycle of messed up thoughts can lead to mental illness if you don’t focus on self-actualization and self-awareness.

Here is what to do when you overwhelm others judging you (negatively most of the time) breaks your heart and shatters your confidence.

Allow yourself to relax and listen to sweet music to drown the blues into melodies that rock your heart’s strings. Read motivational books, watch movies that elevate your mood.

Build some self-love, self-respect, and positively to see the world through a different eye that can bring magical results. The most painful thing in this world is to control your desires and urges and walk in your own shoes on a straight path.

Take risks in life and build inner strength to develop a mountain-moving confidence. Please do not pay attention to what others (friends, family, relatives, neighbors etc.) think or speak about you; they are responsible for their own actions; you are for yours.

The bottom line is, don't be afraid to be yourself. The universe will reward you for your courage. You are meant to succeed with flying colors because God put those jealous people in your life to be taught a lesson.

Hold your head up high, play your own game, keep hopes high, and the efforts full. Stay away from ill people who love seeing you miserable and shattered everyday. Part your ways with anyone who brings you down with all their strength.

Oh, and most importantly, dismiss the judgmental attitude. We are not hear to judge people, we are here to love people.

Stop judging others; stop comparing yourself with others. In an ungodly world, living a godly life is quite challenging, sometimes impossible. So, don’t shake and tumble, stand your ground (listen to the sweet song by Tom Petty (RIP), Stand my Ground).

Don’t give a sh*t about anyone who judges you while not knowing their own journey or direction. The world may be messed up, dark, negative, judgmental, ridiculous, and toxic, but your external environment must not impact your internal feelings.

Your mind should shine like a bright bulb that spreads its glow everywhere you roam, restoring the sanity and peace of this going-crazy world.

You are the best! Your rock, forever.

May you be blessed beyond your wildest dreams.