Letter of encouragement from parents to children

Dear Son:

Thanks to the school for this idea, let us think about what to communicate with you, not just the daily discipline.

Watching you grow taller day by day, parents have an uncontrollable joy. Your kindness and love, your calmness, fairness and sense of responsibility, we can all feel it in our daily moments. We like to listen to you lying on the sofa, watching the funny scene on TV, you can't help giggling, sitting or lying, the sound is small or loud, or giggling or haha, whenever we hear these , our hearts are drunk and feel the same joy as you.

You are growing up gradually, although you have an adult-like body, but under the appearance of maturity, you cannot hide the heart of a child. Your experience, your experience, your thinking and your sentiment still have many improvements. place, so we feel that we have a lot to say to you.

First, about life. Because of you, because of everyone in the family, our life will be more beautiful and life will be so sweet. Life is a one-way journey, but our lives are more fulfilled and meaningful because of family, love, dedication and hard work. There will be many troubles on the way of growing up, but the trouble of growing up is coffee with sugar. Although it is bitter, it is also sweet. Many years later, when we recall the pain we had in our growing up, there will be a sweet nostalgia in our hearts. Therefore, cherish time, cherish life, not be afraid of difficulties in life, and treat difficulties and pains with an optimistic spirit. After all, life is beautiful and happy, as long as we have love, dreams and hope in our hearts.

Second, let’s talk about wealth and value. At present, it is a commodity society, and economy and wealth have become one of the benchmarks to measure a person. What your parents want to tell you is that wealth is a tool. Having it and using it well will make the radius of your life larger, but wealth is not everything. My parents believe that you will not become a slave to money, but they also don’t want you because Money causes a lot of trouble. I just hope that you can understand correctly, rely on your own labor, and be able to support yourself when you become an adult, and have the dignity that a person deserves. In the future, it is very important to choose a career. The income should be high, the social status should be better, and more importantly, it should be combined with one's own interests and hobbies, so as to be a person who is beneficial to the society.

Third, talk about ideals and goals. When you were young, you heard that Yale University is very good. Many US presidents graduated from that university, so when you grow up, you also want to go to Yale University. When you grow up, due to the influence of various factors such as the environment, you will no longer talk about your ideals and the future. We know that you have your own hopes and many troubles in your growth, such as gangs and gangs that plague your current classmates. Parents want to say that ideals and goals are very important, they are the beacon and benchmark in your life. When my father was in junior high school, he thought that he must become a scholar with comprehensive, rich and profound knowledge. Therefore, now he also enjoys reading and likes to read some classic articles aloud.

Therefore, we believe that in your life and study, you should allocate your time reasonably, and you should not spend too much time on online news, gossip and chatting with friends, and you should not be sloppy and uncluttered. Very bad smell. Although you are aware of these problems yourself, we also want to remind you that good habits and hard work are essential to be a good person and a educated gentleman. Therefore, we offer the following hope:

First, cherish your body. Beginning with a croaked baby, the body begins to age gradually as it matures. The metabolism of cells is regular, and long-term incorrect behavior will inevitably bring about bad effects on the body. This is a gradual consequence. Therefore, we hope you read some books on health, pay attention to the regularity of work and rest in life, avoid incorrect postures and habits, strengthen physical exercise, and cherish every organ of the body.

Second, you must have a big goal in life, and a small plan every year, month, and week. Life is short, about 1000 months, so every day should be cherished. It is necessary to list the time for regular physical exercise, time for reading, time for planning and summarizing, and develop regularity and good habits. I'll give you a copy of "The Habit That Determines Life or Failure". I've bought the book for a long time. I felt a lot of resonance when I browsed it. I haven't read it carefully since I bought it. Let's learn together.

Third, cultivate good living and study habits. We must start bit by bit, we must pay attention to our actions every moment, and do not act because of the smallness of evil, and do not fail to act because of the smallness of goodness. Study more, read more, and read aloud in addition to reading. In addition to being kind, we also need many excellent qualities, a fighting spirit that is not afraid of hardship, a spirit of perseverance that is not afraid of pain, and so on. While surpassing others in a group, you must also face the challenges of your own laziness, greed, cowardice, etc.

Besides, we also want to tell you about love. After entering puberty, it is a normal developmental process to have a hazy feeling towards the opposite sex, but it is not love. True love is cultivated in practice, a very good feeling in both spirits and life, not a simple desire. The reason why teenagers are called puppy love is because they have not been able to build a warm nest for love in their youth. There is still great uncertainty in everyone's future development, and it is difficult to control the appropriate distance for the grasp of emotions. Therefore, Overall it does more harm than good. We do not oppose the normal communication between classmates and friends, but we should pay attention to politeness and respect in communication, and do not take some vulgar things as personality, which is also a manifestation of self-cultivation. We believe that a person who is physically fit, knowledgeable, gentle, and successful in his career will not fail in love.

Being able to enter an excellent university is a reflection of your ability, and it will also give you more opportunities for future development. Dad also had some detours in the process of growing up, I hope it can give you some lessons, and if you make a mistake, you can correct it in time. There are some things in life that allow for mistakes and imperfections, as long as we have the opportunity to correct and correct ourselves. There are also some inaccuracies in our education process, but it all stems from love, and I hope everyone can understand.

Good deeds must touch beautiful fruits. Life is beautiful, life is not easy, do it and cherish it.