"Lazy" parents are not a bad thing

Smart kids, lazy parents. In the process of educating children, parents sometimes appropriate laziness, for the child is not necessarily a bad thing, parents laziness rather than give children the opportunity.

The two of them are similar in age, but their temperaments and personalities are much different, so, strangely, they can become best friends

The small quarter belongs to the diligent type, whether in the treatment of children or daily work, the small quarter is particularly efficient, life in the small quarter not only takes care of things for children in order, nothing to worry about children, children home to eat ready-made, children wear clothes are washed, even the children get up every morning to school to eat rice, are good on the table. Under the cultivation of Xiao Ji, the son became lazy and lazy, but also idle, doing nothing all day.

The little stranger belongs to the lazy type, usually, home life has a husband to help take care of things, in the care of children, the little stranger is lazy, can rely on lazy, can rely on, can not rely on the child every day, called the mother does not work. The child had to be self-reliant, and do it herself. So in the small stranger's training, the child in the hall, down the kitchen, their things do not have to worry about the small stranger, and sometimes can help a small stranger to organize a.

It is really what the child what life, parents are lazy, no way the child also wants to survive, so the child in the parent's "care", developed a skill. If the parents are hardworking, the child is the same as a cripple, what can not do, eat what is not left.

What kind of children will be raised by hardworking parents

1. good food and lazy work

Generally, hard-working parents, easy to raise a lazy child, because usually all the time parents help children to complete their, do not need the child to do anything, the child just waits for the mouth to eat line. Slowly the child will form a habit, lazy eating has become a natural.

2. Poor resistance to setbacks

Generally, hard-working parents raise children with poor frustration resistance because usually parents simply do not let children do things, and children do not have the opportunity to experience them, even if it is a failure. No experience is no experience, the child has not experienced a thousand refinements, and where to "invincible".

3. poor hands-on skills

The hard-working parents raised children with poor hands-on skills because parents help children do everything, children eat parents feed, children dress parents help, children write and draw parents paint, parents' ability to practice is excellent, and children's ability not to practice. So such parents raise children with very poor hands-on skills.

So sometimes raising children, parents can not be too diligent, parents should learn to appropriate laziness, and appropriate diligent. Especially in these areas, parents appropriate laziness, children will be more excellent.

Parents of these "lazy", the child will be more excellent

1. "Lazy" nagging

The world does not love nagging parents, because parents love their children especially deeply, so parents have a lot of need to express their children, some parents are not very good at expressing their feelings, so parents will love their children with nagging. But parents should learn to be lazy the "nagging" properly, if parents always nag their children, the children will certainly be annoyed, and even rebellious psychology, if parents can control their nagging, once in a while, the children are quite useful.

2. "Lazy" hands

There are times when parents do not have to do everything for their children, parents should be appropriately lazy, especially in the hands of this aspect, parents should let their children do it themselves. For example, children eat, parents should put the spoon into the hands of the child, let the child complete the work of eating, children wash clothes, parents do not always finish for the child, parents can play good water for the child, let the child wash themselves, and strive to do things for the child to let the child complete, even if the child does not do well enough, but the child as long as the ability to do can be exercised and improved.

3. "Lazy" to accompany the study

Parents should also learn to be lazy in accompanying the study, some times parents look too strict on the child, resulting in the child being particularly stressed, some children are relatively poor stress tolerance, so in the parents of high pressure accompanying the study, the child's whole person collapsed. So parents' appropriate laziness, you can let the child's mood get a proper relaxation, the child's mental pressure is not so big, the child's mood is good, and the academic performance will also progress fast.

So parents in the process of educating their children are not necessarily forcing themselves to have to become Superman, everything can be done for the child, and everything can meet the child, parents are overly powerful, and the child will become weak instead. On the contrary, in life parents should learn to show weakness to their children, learn to make themselves lazy, so that the child will instead become strong, so that they can become parents rely on, but also help parents to solve problems.

The lazy mother hardworking child, hardworking mother lazy child is not without reason. Parents' behavior determines what their children will become in the future, so for the sake of their children's growth, parents try to make themselves lazy!