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How to Win Your Ex-Back

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By Andrew Seta Published 3 years ago 3 min read

When a relationship ends, it can leave you feeling broken and helpless. But you shouldn't give up hope. It is possible to get your ex back, but it takes work and dedication. In this essay I will provide some useful advice for how to win your ex back. I will cover topics such as analyzing the breakup, making amends for wrongdoings, and building trust. By following these steps, you will be on your way to reuniting with your ex.

Rebuilding a broken relationship can be a difficult and delicate process. In order to win your ex back, it's important to be understanding and patient when it comes to her feelings. It's also important to recognize that you may not be the only one that wants the relationship to be mended. Moreover, reaching a place of understanding and compromise requires both parties to be willing to work together and put the effort into rebuilding the connection. By doing this and making efforts to ensure mutual communication and understanding, the chances of finding a way back together increase significantly.

If you want to win your ex back, you need to understand that the relationship might not be the same as it used to be. It's important to be understanding and respect any emotions she is still having ("How to Win Back an Ex"). You also should understand that she is not the only one who wants you, and to be willing to compromise and work to rebuild the relationship ("How to Win Back an Ex"). These steps can help you work towards winning back an ex, while keeping your dignity and hers intact.

Understanding your ex's feelings is an important factor in attempting to win them back. Communication and understanding her emotions is key in regaining trust and rebuilding the relationship. Doing this demonstrates that you are truly willing to put in the effort and listen to her (Eisenly, 2017). It is important to give her the space she needs, and not bombard her with attempts to fix things or make them perfect (Eisenly, 2017). Respecting and understanding her feelings is key in taking a large step in the right direction of restoring the relationship. Taking the time to truly listen and understand her feelings is your best bet in trying to get her back.

Moving on after a breakup can be difficult, but with the right approach, it is definitely possible. Depending on your relationship and how it ended, your recovery may vary in terms of difficulty and length. As author Neal Shusterman said: "It's okay to feel down after a breakup; it's part of the healing process". You should give yourself time to heal and process your emotions. Focus on self-care and try to find ways to channel your emotions such as exercise or journaling. Take time to reflect on the relationship, good and bad. Recognizing what worked and what didn't can help you learn and grow for the future. Finally, don't be afraid to reach out for support when necessary. For additional guidance and support, seek counseling or join a support group. With patience and self-compassion, you should be able to recover from a breakup and move on.

The path of reconciliation is often a difficult one to navigate. It is important to remember that humility and patience are key if you want to win back the love of your ex. You must focus on forgiving and being forgiven, trusting and being trusted, and communicating honestly and often. It is also essential to approach the situation with an open heart and an understanding ear to really move forward. While the journey to reconciliation may seem impossible, it is possible with dedication, resilience and a passion for rebuilding the relationship.

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Works Cited

Allen, E. (2020, August 26). How to win your ex back: 8 tips to make a winning move. Retrieved from The Good Men Project: https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/how-to-win-your-ex-back-8-tips-to-make-a-winning-move/.

Eisenly, S. (2017, July 24). 6 Tips To Win Your Ex Back After A Breakup. Retrieved from https://www.wings-counseling.com/2017/07/24/6-tips-win-ex-back-breakup/

〚"How to Win Back an Ex." Lovepanky, 7 Dec. 2020, www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/broken-heart/how-to-win-back-an-ex〛relationship.

Shusterman, Neal. (2017, February 7). Heartstabberz [Tweet]. Tweetspeak Poetry. https://www.tweetspeakpoetry.com/2017/02/heartstabberz/

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