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How To Turn Your Goals Into Habits

A self-improvement journey.

By Adeyemi OgundipePublished 3 years ago 4 min read
How To Turn Your Goals Into Habits
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It can be tempting to approach goal-setting with an all-or-nothing mentality, where striving for excellence, building a solid reputation, and being acknowledged as successful become the daily focuses of our lives. Over time, we might realize that ambitious goal are similar to layers of an onion, each of which needs to be nurtured and developed in order to produce the final result.

Making time for them to develop and become understood as distinct parts is crucial because the layers will eventually come together to form the finished product. We may set aside time to post about ourselves on social media, update our accounts, write in our journals, practice yoga, or register for a particular class online, but it's only when our goals are ingrained into our way of life and become second nature to us—a habit—that they come together to form a balanced quality of life.

Making your goals a habit allows you to enjoy each day to the fullest, and focus less on how much further along your path to success you are. Simply keep moving forward while incorporating healthy habits into your daily life and working toward your overall goals according to your master plan.

You might have noted daily decisions, actions, and stepping-stones that must be taken in order to accomplish your goal. For instance, expanding your business might require a certain number of contacts to be made on a regular basis; losing weight might require daily decisions about what to eat and how much to exercise, and running a marathon might require traveling a specific distance each week.

Taking action, whether big or small, become a regular part of your commitment and mindset. It's important to give your primary focus some recognition, even on days when you don't do much or when other things take priority. As a result, your actions will eventually become habits.

Put your goals in plain sight—on a vision board, as your screen saver, or written in the first few lines of your journal or diary—so that you can connect with them on a regular basis, whether consciously or unconsciously. Make sure they are always with you.

The focus of your efforts may have been on a few very specific, large goals, but habits form when commitments are moderately comfortable and regular rather than when they are too big and run the risk of overwhelming you or forcing you to put other aspects of your life on hold. It's more likely for something to stick with you and lead to success if it's simple and not too difficult to incorporate.

It is therefore best to divide large goals into smaller components, manageable units that don't require too much thought or can be planned in advance. Otherwise, all of your good intentions run the risk of being set aside on hectic, stressful days as you fall back on easier, more established habit patterns or disregard them in favor of attending to urgent matters that demand your full attention.

Making lists, which divide a larger goal into daily actions that are doable, is viewed by some people as a helpful way to start a new habit. Setting a timer can help you keep track of how much time to spend on each task, ensuring that there is a real focus on the task at hand while also avoiding becoming overly absorbed for an extended period of time on a single piece of work.

It's beneficial to develop the habit of accomplishing something—however small—every day. That way of thinking is proactive and motivating, and it pushes you to periodically review your plans, set higher standards for them, and make progress on them. Making progress can be accomplished with even a brief phone call or email.

When that way of thinking is ingrained, it inspires a positive outlook on what can be accomplished each day—small things on busy days, bigger things when there is time and energy.

Accountability is frequently important; having someone you can check in with on a regular basis and who is interested in knowing what you've done, where you're at, and what the most likely outcome is.

Making an appointment when you have to justify yourself is incredibly motivating, as is abundantly clear the days before a slimmer's class weigh-in!

But a coach or mentor can also aid in resolving any issues, directing or advising you as to your options, and aiding in your ability to regain focus following a setback. Your motivation levels can be greatly affected by having someone on your side, supporting you through your hardships, and having empathy for your situation.

Making your goals a habit is crucial to your success, but avoid becoming overly constrained by them. Give yourself permission to relax and take it all in, even if there are a few side trips.

After all, you never know whether you'll get stuck once you arrive at your destination or whether you'll be motivated to start over and establish some new objectives.

It can be fun to occasionally let go of your initial objectives. Exploring fresh possibilities and going where they take you can be fulfilling. Unexpected adventures can be their own form of reward.

As you advance, take the time to appreciate each opportunity that comes your way. Your goal-driven mindset will then become ingrained in you and contribute to your way of thinking in a stimulating and enjoyable way.

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