How To Make Your Girlfriend Feel Special In 12 Ways

1. Classic Good Morning Text

There is nothing like waking up to a text from your favorite person. While a "hi" might start the conversation, a meaningful and thought-out opener will show your girlfriend that she truly is special. Some options might include "Good morning, beautiful. I was thinking of you" or "I hope you have a wonderful morning. I can't wait to see you tonight."

A good morning text shows your girl that she was your first thought upon waking up. Informing your girlfriend that she is on your mind is a great way to show her how special she is and how much you care.

2. Remember Anniversaries of Various Dates

Being attentive to specific and important dates in your relationship is a great way to show your girl that you value your relationship. Doing so tells her that she is special to you. While remembering your actual anniversary is important, remind her of the specific days that you went on your first date or when you had your first kiss.

Doing something small to acknowledge those dates go far in proving how you feel about her. It might be something as small as a single rose or even just mentioning the date in passing but letting her know that you know is perfect for sharing those feelings.

3. Offer A Massage

Most girls are highly appreciative of a massage. If she is on her feet all day, consider a foot massage. If she keeps stress in her neck and shoulders, work that area. By massaging the area that is bothering her, you can show her that you know her well.

You must put a real effort into the massage. If it is a brief, lazy massage, she will not feel as special. If necessary, break out the massage oil and spend a good amount of time ensuring that she gets to relax. A good massage will relieve her of stress and anxiety as well.

4. Send Flowers Just Because

Very few women dislike getting flowers. When those flowers are unexpected, it is even better. Have them delivered to her work or make sure that they are at her house when she comes home. The surprise effect adds to the experience.

Giving flowers when there is no reason to - there hasn't been an argument or an anniversary - is a nice way to show your girlfriend that you were thinking about her. She will also have a reminder of that in the form of the flowers for several days.

5. Support Her Decisions

There is going to be a time in every relationship where you disagree with one another's decisions. While you can have a different opinion on the matter at hand, it is important that you still support her decision. Whether the decision is to start a new career, choose a new path of study, or even live in a tiny house by the beach, you should support her.

Offering up support even when you feel that she is making the wrong decision shows your girlfriend just how special she is to you. Showing up when you do not agree on something displays how serious you feel about the relationship and makes her feel even more special to you.

6. Genuinely Listen To Her Speak

It is easy to "mhm" and "oh" your way through a conversation. However, this typically means that you are not listening very well. Put all distractions away and listen to the words that she says. Repeat them back to her if it helps you to remember. Ensure that she knows that you listen and that she can talk to you about anything.

Having a good line of communication is imperative in any relationship. For your girlfriend, being able to share little details of things that you probably don't care much about shows her that you truly care about her life and what happens in it. Her day-to-day activities and the things that her friends said might not be the conversation you want to have after work, but listening to it will tell her how important she is.

7. Hold Her Hand

For a lot of people, holding hands is very juvenile. In truth, the connection sets of hormones in the brain are called oxytocin. This hormone boosts moods, decreases stress levels, and strengthens your relationship. When you are the first to grab her hand, she feels loved because it was your idea.

Although many developed relationships see the female initiating this kind of contact, a man in a long-term relationship is not typically the one who reaches to hold hands first. Showing your girlfriend that she is not the only one that wants to hold hands and is not just obligated; you are making her feel more special.

8. Kiss Her Forehead

Girls love forehead kisses! While kisses on the lips are great, there is something about a kiss to the forehead that makes a girl feel special and loved. It is a caring gesture that carries more weight than lip kisses do in some ways.

Not only does a forehead kiss signify that you care, but it also shows that you adore and like to comfort her. Few physical gestures make a girl feel more special than a forehead kiss.

9. Give Her Girls Night

Sometimes a girl needs a night out (or in) with her friends. Although you enjoy spending time together, there can be a need for some activities apart. Giving her some space to be with friends lets her know that you don't feel the need to monopolize her time. It is a good idea to shoot her a quick text telling her to have fun, though!

If she is going out to a bar or getting alcoholic beverages with friends, it is even better if you can offer her and her friends a sober ride home. Ensuring that she makes it home safe will show her how special she is to you.

10. Wash Her Car

Taking care of a task that she hasn't had time for is a great way to make your girl feel extra special. Washing her car is one of many examples. Everyone enjoys a nice, clean car, so this option will let her know that you care.

Other options might be to take her car for an oil change (or change it yourself!), mow her grass, take out her trash, or do any chore that needs doing. She will both appreciate the gesture and feel the love that you have for her.

11. Plan Creative and Fun Dates

Dates these days are so often standard events - dinner and a movie being the go-to. By planning a date night that is different from the norm and lets the two of you have a good time together, you can show your girlfriend that you have thought about your time together and how to spend it best.

It would be best for your date to include things that you both enjoy, but it is extra special if it is something that she loves. If she is passionate about art, check out a new art exhibit. If she enjoys hockey, take her to a game. Maybe her favorite singer is in town - get tickets. Dates that show her that you know her interests and enjoy time with her doing those things will make her feel special.

12. Sincere Compliments

A real compliment can go a long way to making your girl feel important. Sincere compliments can be based on physical traits but often refer to personality. For example, telling your girl that you love her passion and drive in her career is a compliment that runs deep. While telling her that she looks good in her sweater is a nice thing to say, a compliment about her personality will likely stay with her for longer.

When giving a sincere compliment, it is important actually to be honest about it. Honesty in compliments is often something that can be felt, which makes the compliment so much better. It isn't just something nice to say; it is a truth that happens to be nice.

Make an Effort

If you truly want your girlfriend to feel special, there are so many ways to do so. What is important, however, is that you truly make an effort. If you have tried these suggestions and the relationship doesn't feel as it should, getting professional help can be a real asset to your relationship.